Recently, I asked If I have any potential to make friends--and if I was atractive enough to jive the attention of others. I am not suprised with some the answers that I received. I never saw myself as totally hopeless, but someone did give me such an answer. My question about me, but that person...What does this person probably look like? I asked this question in the cultures and society section, the friends and also this category. Just wondering (thats all)
2006-09-12 10:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by josh_rittinger 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what I meant to say is the question is moreabout the person that asked such a comment
2006-09-13 03:38:51 · update #1
That was a very rude thing of them to do, Josh! That person is either extremely ugly and jealous or is very attractive and alone. If he or she is not currently alone, it will happen in due time. That is ugliest form of ugly I can imagine any person being.
You're beautiful. Don't ever let anyone tell you differently. Love yourself as you are, love others as they are, and someone will surely come along and see your beauty.
2006-09-12 13:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also am not completely following the question. I can tell you this, looks do not matter to real true friends, they are thier for who you are. As for attracting people for maybe soemthing more than friends. Well that is up to the individual. I have checked out yout yahoo 360 page. Your pictures are not large enough or clear enough to make a sound judgement if you are a total stud or not. Post some bigger clearer pics and maybe somebody will answer your question.
2006-09-12 17:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Josh, don't believe the person who said that. I am looking at your picture and think you are really cute!!!!!!! You seem to be intellegent as well. There are A LOT of VERY negative people on this Q & A site. They have to tear other people down to make themselves feel good. There's a name for that but I can't think of it right now. As far as making friends, be yourself. Smile and be friendly towards everyone. Be helpful and when you are talking to someone ask them questions about themselfs, their interests and hobbies. People like to talk about themselves and it shows you are taking an interest in their lives!
2006-09-12 17:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having identity and acceptance issues? link below. For now, something to contemplate: Beauty/attractiveness/sexyness, these are not inherently biological. Rather, these are abstracts. These are ideas. What it means to be any of those things changes over time because people change their minds and/or companies decide they need to make a new product sell so they promote it, advertise it, convince people it is Beautiful/attractive/sexy... so they can make money. What they are doing, is creating ideas about their products, and selling those ideas as the answers to problems (that they have often created, by pointing out something, and then villanizing it, teaching people to look at something at a certain angle, and teaching them to fear it, or loathe it)
What were once smile lines are now crows feet. Ya get what i'm saying?
stop waiting for people to define you, or approve of you, define yourself and validate yourself. i realize that social acceptance or rejection gets into one's skin, and the ideas society sells begin to live in ones body. Identities are formed through our interaction with the world around us, be that people, ideas, places, things etc, what world are you interracting with? Is your identity based on reacting to social pressures to look, act, feel, be a certain way? or are you actually happy with yourself?
Just some things to think about ^_~
2006-09-12 18:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what this questions mean either.... If someone said your not attractive enough to make friends??? You know that's bull $hit.... If the whole world was that shallow we would be in bigger trouble than was already are.... Your adorable on your 360 page.
2006-09-12 18:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually the person that described you as "hopeless" was probably simply a bitter crank that enjoys taking shots at people. I wouldn't give it a second thought.
2006-09-12 17:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take every thing I hear here with a grain of salt. There is a lot of bitter people in the world.
2006-09-12 17:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't you listen to anything ugly. You are beautiful and I'm willing to bet you have an equally beautiful heart. You be you and that alone will attract people to you!
2006-09-12 21:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give answers here much wait. Some of these ppl are just kids who enjoy being mean.
2006-09-12 17:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOt sure - but are you at Webster University in St Louis?
2006-09-12 17:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋