Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - July 2006

2006-07-06 19:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a happily married lesbian, and i don't mind fielding heterosexual's inquiries as to glbt culture. but this question has always stumped me. what can i say to straight people that ask whether i or my wife is the 'man of the house'?

2006-07-06 19:26:30 · 25 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1

Allo!Any people out there that frequent the 'TORTURE GARDEN'!

2006-07-06 19:12:56 · 5 answers · asked by snuffylover4 2

I am wondering if when a gay female hits on a straight female she is more cautious about it. For example, would she sort of make hints to test things out... as compared to when flirting with another gay woman she would be more forward or obvious with it? What do you think? Please only answer if you have insight & understand the question. Many Thanks...

2006-07-06 18:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3

2006-07-06 18:25:35 · 12 answers · asked by M D 2

My Gf's dad discovered she was a lesbian and was dating me (Myspace! lol). He's never accepted the fact she's a lesbian, but as of late he seems to be more accepting. The only thing is though, he has been telling her things that she tells me that hurt..alot!
He told her he'd rather see her with some other girl (her friend, who is SUPER DYKEY no offense!) because she has a nice face, and is cool and is nice to look at. Theres been a few other things hes said. Ive never met the guy, but i've met her mom and she doesnt seem to mind me much. Im not a bad kid, nor a trouble maker, and I love his daughter deeply. I like her sisters too, I mean i get along with the rest of his family but him!
I dont know if im over-reacting, but what should I do?

2006-07-06 18:07:49 · 14 answers · asked by Marki 2

I recently read over a question that a female asked when she questioned why a lesbian would choose to be with a "stud/butch" woman. Or as she said a woman who looks like a man. The question was closed and I could not answer but I felt that I had to say something,,

Now, just because you are a lesbian (or a woman period) does not mean you are going to be feminine. Many straight women are not feminine themselves. Many men are still attracted to this. Therefore we all know you can be tomboyish without being a lesbian!

Just as some lesbian women choose to use straps and/or dildos,, it is not to feel closer to being with a man, some just enjoy penetration. I'm sure it would not matter what it was shaped like. (Could take the shape of a large finger,, who cares?)

The point is, you like what you like. People are who they are, if studs chose to shop in the men's departments, he11 why not. Straight women can do the same thing and still be straight. Y be criticized because of it...

2006-07-06 17:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by TayCe 2

My friend is gay and he won't stop touching me and when he is talking with other people he is always talking about what he wants to do to me sexually. i don't like this and i really don't go that way. what should i do to let him know that i'm not gay and that he really needs to stop talking like that?

2006-07-06 17:12:16 · 28 answers · asked by Gangsta Geek 2

i am a straight male who is very much in love with my girlfriend.

now, i hear many people in general (not just gays) say they were born how they are, and i get to thinking

how can you be born with a certain personality right a birth? i know i wan't born straight. just like i wasn't born with certain food preferences or a certain mentality about anything.

now don't get me wrong, i'm not at all saying you choose to be straight/gay. i am just saying that it is an unknown reson why people are homosexual or straight.

since scientists have already proven that there is no "gay gene", it can't be genetic.

even some homosexuals say that they have always felt different from childhood. well, that doesn't prove they were gay at birth, just very early in life.

i believe these things are subconciously influenced by some unknown or known factor.

what do you think? and please tell me why, adressing why i am wrong if you disagree in any way.

2006-07-06 16:46:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 16:34:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

On a gay date it is difficult to know who should pay. Should the older guy pay or the more wealthy? Should one pay for the entertainment (movie, performance, etc.) and the other pay for dinner? Should the sexual top pay or the sexual bottom?

2006-07-06 15:36:29 · 34 answers · asked by Rusty A 2

2006-07-06 15:13:57 · 52 answers · asked by J MONEY 1

if a straight cristian makes fun of gays they say they are making fun of their culture, but if a gay guy makes fun of christianity its alright

2006-07-06 15:11:33 · 16 answers · asked by J MONEY 1

My cousin and her partner are expecting a child any day now, and I was thinking about the dynamics of a couple where either partner could bear children. What a unique point of view!

2006-07-06 14:22:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner always accuses me of being "stuck up" because I don't have gay friends like he does.

Here's the thing: all the gay I know in my community like to get drunk, go to the clubs, sleep around, and do drugs. Even the "working" ones seem to be just totally outrageous and off the wall.

I am the kind of guy that works, comes home, manage my home business, watch a little TV and play around on here, go to the theatre, a fundraiser... stuff like that. I don't consider myself "stuck up," just GROWN UP.

Am I wrong? Do I need to totally change my lifestyle and trash everything I like to do just so I can "fit in" with other gays instead of continuing on like this.... hanging out with my straight friends that like similar activities? I mean, it's not like I am not ACTIVE in the gay community, it's just that that scene doesn't interest me. Aside from business and fundraisers, I am hardly ever out in the GLBT part of town.

2006-07-06 14:10:39 · 22 answers · asked by AeroMidwest82 4

i'm doing a piece on sexual politics in the gay community and would like some information on the number of bottoms to the number of tops in the gay community.

2006-07-06 14:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by Caleb F 1

Will gay people stop having sex just like heterosexual people do ?

2006-07-06 13:27:32 · 25 answers · asked by snoopy22564 4

i am a guy who likes to wear womens panties. i am not gay i just like the way they feel on. they're very comfortable. i just wanted to know some peoples opinion on the matter.

2006-07-06 13:24:41 · 29 answers · asked by surefire 1

p.s just a funny question i wanna see how many people answer

2006-07-06 13:16:40 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 13:08:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Aren't they as focused on other things that the Bible and Jesus Christ promote as they are on outlawing and getting rid of homosexual? Shouldn't they be in a giving and loving mood by helping out the poor, the sick, and the weak? Don't they have other things to do? Those judgmental Christian hypocrites have made Christianity seem so evil! Chrisistianity has now become a cult! Don't get sucked in and brainwashed, rendering you unable to think for yourself and gain self-control.

2006-07-06 12:54:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

you attempt to have a romantic relationship with another person?

2006-07-06 12:53:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i believe that many people are "harmed" by homosexuality

for example, many homosexuals have argued they have a right to be married. i am all for equal rights. you might ask, then why don't you argree homosexuals should have the same marriage rights?

because marriage is a religious and christian tradition. christians have the right to decide what goes on with our traditions. what about the homosexuals you might ask.

civil unions are the answer. they may not provide all the same rights marriage does, but i say, instead of arguing for marriage rights, why not argue for equal civil union rights? that way, both marriage and civil unions will be equal in all ways but religion.

next issue: many straight men/woman suffer from homosexuals "coming on to them". i am a victim of this and i was extreamly humiliated, angered, and frightened all at once. this guy knew i was striaght and yet decided to harrass me in this way

what do you think? being a victim in both cases, i am firm

2006-07-06 12:51:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Young'ish; not bad looking with a good figure (dont want to boast); consider myself fun; open minded (open to most things); horny (enough said); scrub-up well for a night out ......... yet i find dating soooo darn hard.

Oh why is it sooo hard?????

Not long moved to an entirely new area; i know nobody and few have yet to realise i'm ...... wait for it ...... lesbian (((Shock horror)))!!

I don't know the area much, but i can tell you its a small community; mainly long-term locals. no sign of anything you might consider gay/les. Certainly no theme bars, cafes or anything.

On the few nights out i've had i've not once seen a les couple; it's beginning to freak me out.

Have i moved to lesbian hell?
Does this village not like incomers?
Is there a wicker man being built on the hilltop? lol

How do you meet new people when you dont know whos who, whats what or who's what?

Available: Single lesbian; free to good home; clean; good with pets & kids.

2006-07-06 12:31:34 · 14 answers · asked by just_jen2006 2

Was a woman allowed to have more than just one husband back in biblical times just like a man could have several wives? What else did the Bible condone that is considered atrocious and reprehensible today?

2006-07-06 12:11:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

FOR ME I LIKE GAY PEOPLE THEY ARE FUN 2 BE AROUNG WITH, FUNNY ENTERTAINING BUT SOME PEOPLE DONE SEE I LIKE THAT.I DONT REJECT THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE HUMANS JUST LIKE EVRYONE ELSE AND SHOULD NOT BE TREATED LIKE GARBAGE JUST BECAUSE THEY LIKE THE SAME SEX AS THEM. AND FOR THIOSE YOU DONT LIKE THEM I HOPE FALL ON YOUR FACE TOMARRO BECUZ YOU NO WAT ITS THERE LIFE NOT SURES ITS THERE PROBLEM NOT YOURS ITS THERE DESISIONS NOT YOURS, IT DOESNT EFFECT YOU, IT DOESNT THREATENED YOU. SO THEN STOP JUDGING AND START THINKING IN SOME OF THESE QUESTIONS!!!!!!

2006-07-06 11:44:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 11:19:17 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-07-06 11:08:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 10:51:26 · 5 answers · asked by Bi J 1

i did read that New York banned gay marriage this week, also Australia has banned or is trying to get gay marriage banned again.

I'm from Holland, a country where all forms of consentious love are, thank god, legal.

Question, because i can't find it in any news: if gay marriage is banned somewhere after it first was legal, what does that do for the rights of the couples that are already married ?

2006-07-06 10:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by Thinx 5