My young niece got married on November 10th and just jumped right into her "Thank You " cards. Unfortunately, she didn't receive anything from my brother-in-law and sister-in-law*, who, like me, are thirty-something. (*They are very responsible, working adults with a 4 year old and live locally.) My niece is unsure of what to do.
I said wait until one month passes, then go ahead and send a card that just basically says "Thank you for coming". If there WAS supposed to be a gift, they will figure out that it wasn't received by the "Thank You". That way, my niece isn't calling them and flat out asking, "Um, where's my envelope?"
My niece wants to go ahead and tell them that they should cancel and reissue a check because she never got it.
What would you do?
2007-11-27
11:12:18
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