I recently bumped into my ex-girlfriend's brother. The meeting got me thinking about my ex. We had fallen in love some years back - she was my first love and we were pretty into each other. Powerful feelings. I was incredibly selfish and self-centered, however, and did many hurtful things.
I am happily married now to someone else, but I've been thinking of contacting my ex-girlfriend simply to apologize to her. I don't know if this is the right thing to do, especially since I don't plan on telling my wife if I do decide to go ahead and apologize to my ex. My wife simply wouldn't understand. Can't blame her though, since I wouldn't want her reaching out to her ex-boyfriends.
So, what should I do? I feel it is important to seek forgiveness from my ex, but is it fair to my wife?
2007-08-27
15:11:08
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