Hi my stepson is 14. I've always had my doubts as he has grown up, not into "boy" things. He has access to the internet via wireless, his pc is always messing up, and I have to fix it. I have found things on there that point to being gay, i.e. pictures, I also have a router that shuts down wireless links if any "porn" words are attempted and gives admin the reason why. I have found out that his activities have bee logged on the router, especially msn messenger, where he has been having webcams with a particular boy "friend" and watching each other do things that you can just imagine.
While I respect his privacy, and the privacy police will say i shouldn't have looked, I had to fix his pc, and I had to access the router logs, to find out what was shutting it down.
My questions are these,
Is he gay? or is it a growing up fad? (although I never went through this, and I am a man of 38)
I have no problem with it if he is, whats bugging me is should I tell his mother? if so how? Thanks
2007-01-07
01:45:18
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