I need some help - how do you know when your in love?
I have been going out with this guy for a couple of months and I really like him, I see him nearly every day and when I'm not with him I tend to think about him aswell. How do I know if I love him? and is it too early to say it - will I scare him off if I do?
2007-01-07 01:45:42 · 14 answers · asked by helpme?? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You should know by now if you were in love.
Please notice that a 'crush' feels just like love, but it just ends way earlier.
2007-01-07 01:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oops - sorry - I tripped over the mouse and gave you a thumbs down. Not intentional, sorry. Won't happen again, promise.
Are you in love? Yeah.
Is it too early to say? Yeah but no but yeah.
Will you scare him off? Possibly. That's life.
First time relationship? Won't be the last time. You're clearly young, given what you say. You may be deeply in love, but you haven't met the you of the future yet, and he may have no interest in this guy. But so what? Love only sees the present. Be careful, but don't be afraid to take a risk. Make sure someone (a good friend) has your back.
2007-01-07 01:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say probably if you are doubting that you are in love with him you probably aren't. In my small amount of experience, love is just something that you may wake up one day and you just know it.
It is always a risk of telling the other persont that you love them that it will scare them off, but quite often it is a risk worth taking. If they love you as well then all is spanky dory - however, if they don't, while it may hurt you in the short term, I always think it is better to know the truth than living a lie!
Hope this will help you!
2007-01-07 01:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by ginga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to tell if you're in love when you have no experience of similar emotions. When I was younger I got confused and I’m sure everyone has done at one point or another. It’s so easy to get caught up and move too quickly.
Honesty is always the best policy. If you really feel that you love your man, tell him so.
If you’re not sure, tell him how strongly you feel about him. This way:
1.You wont over commit and regret it.
2.He wont get freaked out if his feelings differ from yours
3.He’ll almost certainly reciprocate in one way or another so you’ll find out how he feels about you
2007-01-09 00:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy fool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this worked for me i dont know about you but ...if the answer for the next questions is yes then you are in love with him .... 1.do you have any problem with sleeping alone anymore ... 2.do you wake up from bed and you want to call him so bad to hear his voice ...3.is sex is not taking a big part in your relationship ... 4.do you feel there is alot missing if you dont see him for one day 5.and last of all do you anyhow feel that you love him more than you are attracted to him
2007-01-07 13:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jim1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner and I say those three little words to each other on an almost daily basis and we havn't frightened each other away yet. We're 28 years married in March. I don't know how you 'know' you're in love but I'm sure getting over being afraid tell your partner you love them is a good place to start
2007-01-07 01:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Scitech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship with him. Are you together, like a couple, or are you just friends from his point of view? If you don't feel like he has feelings for you, then wait before saying anything because it could ruin a friendship.
Is there really any reason to hurry? Just enjoy your time together, and see what happens. Don't stress about it.
2007-01-07 01:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about him all day that does not mean you are obsessed.
perhaps you have had sex for the first time or for some other reason.
if however, you are ovsessesd , then that is not love.
take it easy and just allow yourself to feel vulnerable but at the same time talk to a good friend who you trust,
2007-01-07 02:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you know exactly when your in love. It doesn't take a set time to fall in love. It's your own feelings that tell you. Deep down you will know. It's the best feeling in the world though.
2007-01-09 00:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by haighston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its too early to love someone,love and affection are very confusing when first dating..
you will have feelings for him but this cant be mixed up with love...you need to know him alot longer and better before you realise thet you do love him....
dont rush into saying i love you to him,this could cause problems for you.
take each day as it comes and you will know when true love has blossomed for you.
2007-01-07 01:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋