I m easily down and sad when my friends need to go...how can i overcome this feelings?
2007-01-07 01:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Is this a real question
Or are you ironical as your name suggests?
Then:a good one
If not meant to be ironical?
Can't you see people have more things to do than to hang with you all day?
Read a book ,see a film,call a friend,play here a bit etc etc etc.
greetings:Rob.xxx
2007-01-07 02:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to focus on you and not on your feelings. You need to find something that fulfills you when you're alone. be satisfied with being by yourself. I know exactly how you feel. I used to feel down everytime a friend had to go because then I'd be in my apartment alone. I don't really know the answer. i'm the kind who has to be severely busy so i dont have to focus on being by myself. I think you're craving companionship. but until you get it, take up a hobby, read, play music, watch tv, go for a walk. if you're really feeling down, maybe you should see your doctor. maybe you have a chemical imbalance and need some anti-depressants. Those do help for people who do feel unnecessarily down for no reason. sorry it's not a lot of help.
2007-01-07 13:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a few minutes to reflect on friendship, why they are your friends, where they are going. I think everyone feels a little bit of "separation anxiety" at times, some to a lesser degree than others. Don't let it control you, control it instead...make a date for later on, and look forward to it, rather than feeling sad about them leaving. Hope this helps you a bit!
2007-01-07 10:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to occupy your time and your mind. Only YOU can get yourself out of a slump. Now quit whining and go find something useful to do.
2007-01-07 10:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in their place and go to visit them instead. Then they will be sad to see you leave and you will understand why you have to leave.
2007-01-07 11:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by fred r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a hobby, get more friend. why do yur friend go. did u make them upset
2007-01-10 08:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch tv (a really good show or movie) usually helps me :)
2007-01-07 10:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up a bible
2007-01-07 10:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by cooter_brown872 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋