To preface: just came out. I don't want anything major to change in my life and i'm finding myself changing to the suit. I feel like now that i'm out i'm bombarded with people pressuring me (not conciously) of how to be and how to act. I just want to act normal and be a normal person, but I have to walk around with people coming up to me apologizing for the anti-gay remarks they said in the past and having ever rising expectations. I know the answers i'm going to get is be yourself and yadda yadda, which I am despite everything, but I want to know if others in the same situation have felt the same way. (What was it like entering the gay world for you?) As a minor note, I have to say that my first experience in a gay bar was terrifying, lol! I felt completely naked. I understand the way women feel because walking in it's like you are a peice of meat. Dealing with guys hitting on you and the 'no thanks', and not being able to just relax and have a good time. Sorry for the rant! :)
2006-11-11
17:40:53
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