I'm friendly with this guy who's roughly in the same social circle as me. He's sweet enough but he's incredibly boring to talk to (please no lectures on "give him a shot"--I have) and he calls my phone at inoppurtune times with inane chatter. Every time he calls I say something like, "Sorry, I'm a bit busy now" but he isn't getting the idea.
Also, when I bump into him at bars/clubs he'll cling to me all night and when I say, "Alright, I'm going to go find so-and-so" he insists on coming with me. Again, not really grasping the leave-me-alone vibe.
My question is this: Is there any tactful way at all to tell this guy that I don't wish to talk to him/hang out anymore? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I really don't see any other way to remedy this situation other than being brutally honest with him. Help!
PS: He's gay, so it's not that he has a crush on me.
2006-10-17
01:19:04
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