My boyfriend Zac and I have been friends for 6 yrs and dated for 1 yr but his's parents have homophobia. I have meet them when we were friends but they learned that i was bi and they freaked out. They didn't want me to see my boyfriend. Should we still date or not
2006-10-17 01:17:54 · 30 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's really your call, You aren't dating them, but they are a part of his life. If he can deal with their issues and you are still interested and can deal with the fact that they don't want you two to be together, why not. I've been in a similar situation, my ex parents didn't know about him and he wouldn't tell them. It wasn't pretty at all but when we did eventually part ways it wasn't because of his parents.
Is it worth it? You'll have to decide that on your own.
2006-10-17 01:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have come to discover that my own mother will always say that she knows what's good for me, but sometimes she doesn't and it's always hard for her to say she doesn't, so maybe only you and Zac know how you make each other feel,and i say if u still want Zac, make ways to see each other, and try to get him to have his parents talk to someone, because a hebrew proverb says "do not confine your children to your own learning, for they were born in another time",maybe you might be the right one!!!
2006-10-17 08:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by chev-poison 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He'll have to deal with all of the immediate consequences from that, so...it's kind of mostly his fault. If he wants to keep seeing you, but secretly, you need to decide if you'll be able to handle it. Things weren't quite the same, but I do know how frustrating it is dating someone who's not completely out, much less actually hiding it from their parents. Good luck.
2006-10-19 00:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would say go ahead and date. If you like each other do it. I would not care what the parents of my b/f thought. I really think that your boy friend has to sit down and tell his parents that he likes you for who you are. love and true feelings come from the heart.
2006-10-17 09:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes if hes is gay or bi his parents will have to get used to it just dont dont do things in front of them parents take time to get use to this type of think good luck
2006-10-17 08:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a silly question. Do whatever makes you happy.
However, now that I think about it, if he's still affected that much by his parents, you're probably too young to make a homosexual relationship work in today's society. I dunno. Having never experienced that sort of thing, I'd go with "tread softly."
I'm just glad the girls I dated back then didn't have parents with heterophobia. Kudos for going through life on "hard mode"
2006-10-17 08:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're not dating his parents! Forget about them. However, if he wants to maintain a relationship with them, and won't tell them to butt out of his business, I don't think the relationship will last.
2006-10-17 10:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means, just becase you are bisexual doesnt mean a thing.
Im sure glad that muh parents arent lyke that, i have friends tha are bi, pansexual and gay. and it dosnt bother them a bit. ;]]
try talking to them maybe, but dont stop seeing your boyfriend just because they arent loving the fact, it is Zac and your life. live it to the fullest!
2006-10-17 08:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have a genuine love for each other...then it will be worth the battle that might come up with hs parents
2006-10-17 08:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Taurus 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not base my decision on Zac's parents. This relationship must have some weak points.
It sounds like you have your eye on somone else.
2006-10-17 08:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋