I have a gay friend who asked me to set him up with a date. Not with a particular person, just a general date. "I trust you, Elphie, you know me well." Well, he's a "bottom" looking for a "top". Does a top have certain personality traits? I've known a lot of gay men who were sort of tough and surprised me by claiming to be bottom. I find it kinda rude to just flat out ask an acquaintance if he's a top. That sort of sounds like I'm trying to make an equation without thinking of the personalities. How do you feel if someone asks you if you're a top or bottom? How do you find a "top"? I want to make my friend's first blind date to be pleasant and have room to grow into a relationship.
2006-09-05
04:12:15
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