i need to know if im still strait bc there's a girl i know tht has a serious crush on me every since last year.whenever she sees me in school or out she always give me a hug and kisses me on my cheek.last year i told her tht i wasnt gay or bi and tht she needed 2 leave me alone bc she makes uncomfortable.but durining the summer me and her went to the same camp and when we were there i let her touch and kiss me bc i had started to like it but only for the moment.can i be strait if i let tht happen?
2006-09-05 04:23:25 · 29 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's possible you was just curious, Look your young and these things happen. Now with that said If you find your self looking at other females and your having them feelings it's OK just remember it's OK to be who you are.
:)
2006-09-05 04:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had a "summer fling" and nothing more. Yeah, you might be bi-curious, but I think you're probably predominantly straight.
Don't let it freak you out, know that what you had over the summer was fun and definitely endearing. Hopefully you will not trip out and start being mean to her because you somehow feel guitly for allowing yourself to be human and have feelings towards her.
Find a way to resolve your feelings, know that it was just a summer thing and still retain a good friendship with her.
Obviously you do care for/about her on some level, and that's perfectly ok.
2006-09-05 05:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your just at a point in you r life that you are curious about your body and don't worry about the kissing part most best girlfriends practice on each other even thought thy are str8 they just do it to help ge ready for the real thing unless you do that past like the age of 20 then it is ur either gay or bi. Watch cruel intentions 2 it shows what i say throughout the movie.
2006-09-05 06:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by krisd342005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimmie, I'm a lesbian and your just experimenting... Sometimes being younger you get interested is the attention thing....... If you just like the attention and let it get a little further one time that's ok... If this girl really likes you, you might not want to go there again...... you don't want to wind up leading her on, if she wants more... If you are having feeling for her that would be a whole different story.... experimenting in your sexuality could be fun, just make sure you don't intentionally hurt anyone for your own needs..... Good luck
2006-09-05 05:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lingua06437's first two points ...
But yea,
Most Straight people feel attracted to their own gender at one point or another... It is just that straight people decide their attraction and love for the same gender is a deep admiration, strong friendship, or they just try to ignore it. If you keep on letting things like what happened at camp happen then you will be considered not straight.
Ask yourself, Would you willingly put yourself back in a situation like that?
2006-09-05 07:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are straight or maybe mostly straight with some bi tendencies.
You said that she sexually stimulated you when she touched you, but it was only momentary. You could be sexually stimulated by sliding down a banister, that does not mean that you are going to marry a banister. Were you longing for her after the encounter? Do you want to have sex with other women?
If you are sexually attracted to women then you are either bi or a lesbian. If you have no sexual attraction to women and are attracted to guys then you are straight.
2006-09-05 04:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just testing the waters but if you liked it and still think about it that much then look into it cause girl you probably bi-curious or just plain bi, you know what you feel, you just need to find yourself there is nothing wrong with what orientation you are, it's something you just can't help but feel. Best of luck!
2006-09-05 04:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you like it. It is good, positive interpersonal contact. It is called recruiting. She is hoping that at some point you will say, "Oops, that is a feeling I reserve only for those I'm sexually attracted to." Then she gets to say, "See, you're one like me."
There are all kinds of things that stir us, and all kinds of situations. Sometimes, if they are persistent, they get lucky.
2006-09-05 08:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just asked a question like this like two days ago...You are bi-curious which isn't bi-sexual, ( I found that out)...But you have to found out what you like, so if you feel uncomfortable, than it isn't for you...But, if you enjoyed it than try it...Nobody has to know about what you did...As of right now you are straight, because you didn't fully act...Temptation is a b***h, though.
2006-09-05 05:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by shycat99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For women, sexuality is based on attraction or emotional bonding. Partly sexual yes, but that's not even half of it. About 80% emotional and 20% sexual. Women 's closeness is so beautiful!!
2006-09-05 04:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by sugarbear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋