.......do people make such a big fuss when they find out that a girl is not a virgin and make her go through hell, yet men are just left alone, just because "they're men"??? I'm referring to most African cultures who value virginity and strongly emphasise on "no sexual relations before marriage." It makes it seem as if that phrase is only referring to the females. Men and women are the same. A friend called me and said he wasn't happy and i asked him why, and he says he found out on his honeymoon with his new wife that she wasn't a virgin, and i asked if HE was one before the engagement and he say, "....no, and it doesn't really matter, because I'M A MAN......." think about it people, sex before marriage DOES refer to both male and female, why the pressure on the ladies ALL THE TIME.....i'm mainly referring to the African cultures.
2006-08-14
10:34:11
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