Psychology - October 2007

that you later regreted,? i have ,,,

2007-10-27 06:51:39 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6

Money, Parents protection/encouragement, teachers' guidance, friendship circle, your own interest, knowledge, born in a wealthy family, opprtunities or all the above..

i feel the inborn qualities and inner desires/urge to become a clean man/women without cheating anybody and simply doing the best..

2007-10-27 06:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by mega v 4

Everybody work in this team is so upset with the supervisor, we hate her controlling and micromanaging. There are some questions that we have to answer at the retreat, "When you really enjoy your work with the team?" "What makes you want to come to work in the morning?" We are very negative now, how can we be positive?

2007-10-27 06:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ALWAYS get hella red in front of people and when im not even emarrassed, how do i not do that?
please help!

2007-10-27 06:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by Laura 1

I am dating a wonderful woman whom I love with a child with autism. He is 5 years old. I am worried about the possibility of some day being a step dad for him. I want the best for him and his mom, but I'm not sure I could handle the day to day stresses that go along with raising a child with autism. I would hate to commit to being there full time and then not being able to be what they need from me. What can I expect things to be like if we were to get married? What kind of a person does it take to keep your sanity, and be a blessing to them? I would want nothing more than to be a huge help, and help them thrive. I would hate it if I committed and then coulnd't make things easier for them and feel trapped. Please help.

2007-10-27 06:13:52 · 9 answers · asked by Eric F 1

I want to learn how to do this both as a group facilitator of a meetup group on dating, relationships, and marriage; and as a participant in a group for people, such as myself, who coming to terms with largely childhood or relationship abuse issues. I think support groups are great, but I do still feel wounded and triggered by certain group members who are in the process of learning new behaviors and releasing inappropriate behaviors--e.g. controlling, caretaking, bullying, teasing, coming on to you sexually, etc.

Not like I'm this perfect person, but I want to learn how to be in a group with inappropriate people, just as I must learn to do this in the world--and not always resort to cutting people off or not getting my own needs met by leaving the group. In the past I've called it "voting with my feet." Any suggestions would be greatly welcome. I have a meeting this afternoon, and my meetup group starts in Dec. Can't keep walking away or putting up walls. NYC is lonely en..

2007-10-27 05:58:46 · 4 answers · asked by Indi 4

2007-10-27 05:38:05 · 36 answers · asked by draroraml 1

2007-10-27 05:33:23 · 6 answers · asked by bear 1977 4

I thought we are borned to enjoy our life but it seems life doesnt work this way.Why life is not a bed of roses but cactus?If this is the general rule,how can we be stronger?

2007-10-27 04:56:19 · 10 answers · asked by blossom 1

They say that they are quite understanding each other , but they go on have the difference of opinion with their partners only. When compare to the difference of opinion they have with their partners is always more than what they have with others. Why it is so, Can you tell me one example or reason

2007-10-27 04:43:37 · 2 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

2007-10-27 04:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 04:11:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never had eating problems, im 15 and skinnny and about 5'11" and i have extreme metabolism and i can eat anything i want, but why am i getting these urges to eat so much? just today i was riding my bike and passed by subway and wanted to get a cinnamon roll.


the problem im trying to explain is that im worrying about food too much. like ill be in school and it would be time to get on our bus, and id be thinking about what i can eat at home. why am i always thinking about food? im always hungry and i have nothing better to do, i literally sit in y house for 24 hours when i dont have school and do nothing, i dont even play video games, i just sit there. What can i do to:
-get food off my mind,
-have something to do so i dont think about food,
-and get back to my eating habits where i could eat anything i wanted and not gain weight (at least not at this age right now)

2007-10-27 03:28:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

how?

2007-10-27 02:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my anger and contempt for people that play head games runs very deep.
how do i handle people that grin broadly at me...beaming wide grins.....when im in the grip of a deep depression, battling a tough illness that is borderline personality disorder and PTSD and aggrophobia.
they must no the insides of your soul what will ignite your anger.....im here struggling like hell in life....battling to keep above water.....clinging onto my dreams of emigration to build a new life......no friends......never having been employed.....never been in a fullfilling relationship.....
and then you get someone who grins widley....almost like mocking me.....revealing happiness ive never experienced....times of happiness and joy that are long forgotten to me..
how do i handle these people?

im sorry im so angry

2007-10-27 02:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

fingers in your affairs...meddling, interfering with your life...but you had no evidence, just a strong feeling.....and the thought made you angry?

because no one has the right to involve them selves with your life.
you felt as though these people somehow prevented what you want from happening.....but when you look around theres smiles all round....like nothings happening....its all in your mind...
can you tell me how you can handle these feelings?
because theres no one to confront about it...no concrete evidence..

im asking this because im a ptsd, bpd sufferer, im 30, i live alone, in a one bedroom apartment...on welfare.....never made any friends in life.....never had a relationship....never been employed....ive done nothing but suffer all my life......and nothings ever gone my way.

2007-10-27 00:03:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a high school freshman who is very quiet and shy.
I was a happier and more confident person as a child because I didn't need to worry about too many things.
But now that I'm a little more mature, I've been realizing the problems in our family and I've been dealing with high school.

It is very hard for me to keep a good self-esteem because of the people I'm around, and the things I'm experiencing.
I feel that my friends are a lot prettier and confident than me, and they get more attention which really bugs me.
I know that at an age like this, people could be really shallow and just look at the physical appearances of others.

So, I'm wondering, how can I slowly break out of my shell, and into a more confident person? :)

2007-10-26 23:44:50 · 1 answers · asked by Mahiwagang Saging 3

What is the key to human relationship?

2007-10-26 23:00:16 · 21 answers · asked by Blue jay 4

i studied hard .i'm in 9th grade but i got only 237/300 n thats not good for a person who got 280/300 in primary school!!my friends who studied like me remain in their 280s but i am not able to why?people tell me i am smart.my friends discourage me n tell me it's ok it's 79% try next year..but i wanna try the next semester....this is so disappointing...what to do?i sit in front of my books and start learning n then suddenly start feeling that i can't.... n feel like stop studying...how can i gain my confidence back or shall i just go back to the idea of running away from my house?there is not much presssure on me to study well from my parents.

2007-10-26 22:51:04 · 21 answers · asked by coolgal 3

Sex Repressions ...?

I live in a country where somethings are totally refused by community ... Sex relationships are Totally forbidden outside the marriage frame , Masturbation is forbidden too -before and after marriage- , and I don't think visiting "Night Clubs" is allowed too ....

U may say , ok Go ahead and marry then , well u see ... I can't for many reasons ... First , cause marriage age is 22-30 here , and since am only 20 then I have to bear for 2 -if not more- years...
second , marriage requirements are really above average , u need about 55 000 US$ -300 000 in our currency- to start ur marriage life , if I am a graduated student , then I will earn about 270$ a month -1500 in ours- u can take half of that for my normal expanses even if I continued to live with my parents, if we simply calculated that -putting in consideration raises and stuff- then after I graduate at the age of 21 I will be able to marry at the age of 27 ,

2007-10-26 22:42:40 · 1 answers · asked by Haitham Emad 7

Often times, people criticize a person as being arrogant after he or she preaches his or her accomplishments. However, most of the time, a person is just gratied for what he or she attained. So, what then is the basis and the margin between a proud and an arrogant human? Does this mean that every time we accomplish something, we should keep it within our selves? Should we encapsulate ourselves in order to stay away from the defamers?

2007-10-26 22:32:16 · 6 answers · asked by jazzygurl 1

2007-10-26 20:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by girish t 2

I wan't to learn it,If anyone tell me how can I perform it?

2007-10-26 20:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by vicky s 1

I'm serious i cant see my reflection in the mirror!! WHAT DO I DO

2007-10-26 20:22:38 · 16 answers · asked by $$$ 2

2007-10-26 19:57:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you view suicide, if someone did it for the sake of finding out what happens after you die.

2007-10-26 19:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by Mr M 3

I fear to offend anyone that's why I always try my best to please them. Sometimes it makes me feel good, but sometimes it also make me feel bad and tired. I'm sick of it but i can't avoid it! Though it does help me to gain friends, it had also caused me losing one. what shall i do?

2007-10-26 19:45:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 19:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by ~ 3

As a child, I know that I have spent countless hours at academies and with tutors at my house as an attempt by my parents to go beyond. Most of these were forced things. So, will stuffing a child's mind with more education at an early age overpower their mind and cause them to hate work? if you are a parent, would you do this to your child? Does this have anything to do with psychology?

2007-10-26 19:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If starting now you could have $500 a day until you next touched your lover, how long do you think you could avoid personal contact? How would that affect your relationship?

2007-10-26 18:53:19 · 6 answers · asked by purple dove 5