Psychology - September 2007

My ex g/f came back into my life and brought alot of mental and physical problems (she got pregnant) along with her. Well I forgave her and when she didn't want the baby anyone (ab) I forgave her also.

How could she tell me that she loves ME forever and is looking forward to having my babies and a happy life and not even 8 hours later I call her dad worried b/c i haven't heard anything from her that morning and he said she never came home?

Was she ever going to tell me or just play me along with other people?

Why did she tell me that she loves me even when she was in the other persons house?

What was she trying to accomplish? A final fairwell before she came back to me? Why didn't she do that a month ago when she called me?

ALSO, why did she get so upset at me when she left ME and I slept with another woman? She is the one who left, got preg, got ab, not me.

Please help me answer as many of these questions. Last time I talked to her she would only say "I don't know"

2007-09-16 11:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by cappatown23 3

Does to me and scares the hell out of me!

2007-09-16 10:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Metal illness
Drug abuse or Alcohol abuse

If so please explain how

2007-09-16 10:26:06 · 6 answers · asked by moneyman 1

i really dislike this because these people don't no me or what i stand for.
i often talk about my struggles with depression and psychological problems.

so then when certain people say i'm unbelievable it gets me upset.
can anyone advise?

2007-09-16 10:25:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What thing makes you rally angry and even if you do nothing - what is it? No big political answers please. Thanks

2007-09-16 10:14:07 · 17 answers · asked by helen p 4

I want to improve my overall health and lose weight but I am constantly tired and other areas of my life need organising/attention, ie: work, it all gets a bit overwhelming

2007-09-16 09:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by lola1981 1

I am so annoyed with people constantly saying "I hate life! My family don't care! I have no friends! Bla Bla Bla!"
So you think your family don't care about you? Have you been kicked out of your house? Are you being starved? No? Then they care!
You have no friends? Does everyone you ever meet despise you? Do you go to a cafe in a random place and the waitress/waitor despises you? Are they nice to you? Yes? Then you have friends.
Would you rather be in a hole in Iraq, waiting for your time to be bombed or shot down? Constantly living in fear?
Would you rather be a mother knowing your son is dead? Knowing that all the time you and him have shared is all gone?
Then you shouldn't hate life. You're lucky.

What do you think?

2007-09-16 08:39:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If O.J. didn't want Nicole anymore,so how come he went out and killed her anyways, as if he was still pocessive of her.

2007-09-16 08:36:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left school when i was 16 with no gcses (due to leaveing early to be a carer). I then went to college but then quit as i hated the course as i didnt have the grades to do what i wanted.so i went back to being a carer. so i could find out what i wanted to do. I am 18 now and i know that i want to be a travel agent but i cant get my foot in the door as nobody will give someone with no experience and qualifications the chance. i dont want to go back to college. HELP?

2007-09-16 08:11:12 · 6 answers · asked by Leanna 2

2007-09-16 08:01:46 · 16 answers · asked by Mr-Kay 7

My father was always in and out of my life (mostly out). He only visited when it suited him and then would disappear for years at a time. At age 18, I got involved with a man with whom I had a child, who turned out to be just like him. I went downhill and began to lead an irresponsible life whereby I didnt take care of myself emotionally or physically. I let men take advantage of me. Then,12 years after having my first child, I changed. I grew up. I started to love myself a little. I stopped living the kind of life I had been. Then I met a man who I thought was different. He had all the qualities that I had dreamed of (or so I thought). By now I was 32 and really wanted another baby. We were both happy when I became pregnant. To cut a long story short, he has turned out just like the other 2 major men in my life. He is irresponsible and unpredictable. He has never spent time with us as a family and he is in total denial. I realise what I have done: picked a man like my father... again.

2007-09-16 07:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by miss_ruby_topaz 4

what is the difference between objective and subjective arguments in a court case?

2007-09-16 07:24:57 · 4 answers · asked by marisan f 1

2007-09-16 07:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by B 3

2007-09-16 07:00:18 · 5 answers · asked by geyamala 7

How do you deal with this fear?

2007-09-16 06:58:14 · 2 answers · asked by jana silva 1

What’s the difference between being in love with someone and being infatuated with someone? Can a person be in love with someone and infatuated with the same person? By the way, I’m not a kid. I’m a guy and I’m 25. Thanks!

2007-09-16 06:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by ___ 1

2007-09-16 06:54:17 · 1 answers · asked by geyamala 7

Sometimes I felt like I wanted to talk to someone with all this personal issues I'm facing right now, but then I'll realize that who am I kidding, I can't do that.

I don't have a life partner, or the kind of friends that I can talk to (they don't do that with me either). I can't talk to my parents either, besides it being damn awkward, they'll never understands.

So I never really get to talk to anyone about all my problems, but I'm just wondering had I have someone I could talk to, would things be different for me?

2007-09-16 06:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by Hornet One 7

So used by somebody you start to think what they saw you as is all you are worth?

2007-09-16 06:45:05 · 14 answers · asked by nonoodles74 7

I'm a shy quite person around many people other then friends and I am just so ready to come out of my shell! How can I boost my self confidence and higher my self esteem so I can get over this shyness? Any ideas?

2007-09-16 06:44:19 · 4 answers · asked by Ash 1

not trying to offend anyone, seriously its a horrible thing. but what is it that drives people to do it? obviously its a sadness, but what is it that motivates that sadness?

2007-09-16 06:34:39 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is happening when you cant stop thinking/dayreaming or fantasizing???

2007-09-16 06:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by faliica I 2

2007-09-16 06:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by apaulo_16 1

For details, enter (Targeted Individual, TI) into your Yahoo ANSWER 'Search for question'.

Can certain effects claimed by many 100s of TIs around the world be detected, measured, and recorded. I believe they can be. Don't we, as concerned citizens of America and of the world, have an obligaton to find out the truth concerning claims made by so many human beings, TIs? I think that we do. If it is true what TIs claim about targeted effects they suffer, then don't we have a moral obligation to determine the truth of the matter and to have those that perpetrate such acts, appropriately punished? I think so. Then I challenge the mental health community to take the first step and conduct scientific based sleep studies on a group of TIs. Based upon my own research, I am confident that if carefully orchestrated, a sleep study would expose certain externaly projected energy fields that are common to most TI's, affecting both body and mind, remotely, from a far.

2007-09-16 06:17:50 · 2 answers · asked by Bob D1 7

2007-09-16 06:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

Can somebody please create a hero that can "fight" and provide hope against one of today's societal/political issues? Please include a superhero name and an explaination as to how your hero's powers (superhuman or regular) fight against specific parts of this societal/political issue you've chosen.

Also can somebody create a villain/monster that goes together somehow with the hero. Please include a villain name and explaination as to how your villain's traits help him attack or threaten something in society at this time... what emotions he/she/it stirs up in people and preys on (why is this considered particularly bad in our era?)

All suggestions are greatly appreciated ASAP
Thank You

2007-09-16 05:51:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 05:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by jeremy s 1

I have no confidence at all and it is ruining my life and my relationship. I am a 23 year old female and have been in a relationship for 4 years. I have never had much confidence but things have got worse, i work monday til friday then spend my weekend in the flat on my own because i am too scared to go out. If i do go out then it is only to my parents house. My boyfriends asks me to do things but i always find an excuse not to. I get into moods where i scream and cry because i am so angry with myself for not being able to do these things. I am scared of everything and i am not sure how to stop doing this. My boyfriend was understanding at first but i think he is starting to resent me as i am holding him back in life and i do not know what i would do without him. I would love to do all the travelling he suggests but it scares me even when he asks me to go to the beach i say no because that scares me, i don't know why it just does. I am scared of talking to people and scared that people

2007-09-16 05:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by hope 6

just curious. if so... whats it called. any detailed links?

thanks

Shame

2007-09-16 04:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by Rastafarianhobo 4

okay, so i was online, alone, doing nothing in particular, when all of the sudden i started laughing. just chuckling actually. on and off for about two minutes now. i can barely type this. how do i stop?
this also happened yesterday. i laughed for about five minutes. and the night before, but for only a minute.

2007-09-16 04:51:49 · 6 answers · asked by Q 2