Psychology - September 2007

is that possible? i hate that personality trait...its killing me! i want to be more outgoing and think less:( what do u say? any suggestions?

2007-09-16 21:19:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 20:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by The Knowledge Server 1

i need help to organize and decide how to make my life better. i cant seem to make up a good schedule that i can follow(note im in high school) and in order to control my grades, social life, and job(and future career's) i need help from a site or program. noone answer me with the answers for yahoo, parents, counselor, or anything/one thats not on the computer.Help

2007-09-16 19:53:28 · 3 answers · asked by subs r de best 4

2007-09-16 19:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by Warrior of the Light 3

should I report her to the local council or wot

2007-09-16 18:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone who is physically fit tmuscleman)intuitive and a great guitarist/musician.

2007-09-16 16:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 16:34:41 · 3 answers · asked by dj_alex_burgundy 1

2007-09-16 16:19:20 · 10 answers · asked by ☆Zestee☆ 5

2007-09-16 15:55:54 · 9 answers · asked by Shirley B 1

mine was the birth of my son (defining moment in life )
anyone else ?

2007-09-16 15:42:00 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew1968 5

2007-09-16 15:38:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anna J 1

I have made many mistakes which have hurt me. I have done badly in the past and lost love and things which were important to me. I have learned from the mistakes and have improved a lot. Now the problem is that those memories keep coming back to me and i keep thinking if only i had not made those mistakes i could be happy right now. How can i forgive myself and move on.

2007-09-16 15:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by Hello 2

I have to state a person's feelings about the most beautiful place (according to him; it can be your city, country..anything) in a statement. So tell me in one statement (or can be multiple) what do you feel about the most beautiful place that you have seen or is just beautiful for you... THANKS a million guys!! The more quotes I get the better off I am- its a college proj. :)

2007-09-16 15:09:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since everyone tries to satisfy their desires. But if some people really didn't love themselves, why wouldn't they try to deny themselves as they would with an enemy instead of trying to satisfy their selfish instincts.

2007-09-16 14:51:31 · 1 answers · asked by Joe S 3

Well theres the thing im from a different country and i moved here 2 years ago and sometimes i remember the family from over there and i cant stop myself from crying!! And when a sad song starts playing a fall on my knees and cry!! I go there every summer but this summer i missed it! And that makes me even more sad!! so is ther anything i can do to get this out of my ming and feel like everythings allright??

2007-09-16 14:44:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a b/f of 2months (we have a very bumpy/friends with benefits/lots of fights/past...though I've known this guy for over a year/he never wanted a relationship with me before). So almost 2months ago he suddenly asked me to be his g/f and then about a week later told me he loves me. Though he can't really tell me why, he continues to tell me he loves me to my face and in texts. I ask him why he loves me, and he says that because I am responsible and he wants to see what he can become with me. (he says I make him a better person) Anyway, a few days after those 3words, he asked me to move in with him. His brother is getting an apartment and he wants me to share the extra bedroom with him. Ever since he has asked, he has been literally begging me to make the decision and live with him. It doesn't feel right at all. I don't even think this guy cares about me. We don't go on dates and I can't even rely on him giving me a call when he says he will, yet he's begging me to take the plunge

2007-09-16 13:47:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

At school, I am ALWAYS comparing myself to other people. Like if someone else gets a higher mark then me, instantly the first thought in my mind is I am stupid and they are smarter then me. I have thought like this my whole life and it is quite destructive. How can I change this? I don't really try to compare myself to other people it just comes naturally but I want to stop. How can I stop!?

2007-09-16 13:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Tim Buck 5

I've always been a worrier. In my last relationship tho, it got out of hand. At first, was fine. But then he began to not treat me well. He was manipulative and neglectful. Talked down to me a lot, and would do things that would upset me-- and then yell at me, say i was "crazy" if i told him how i felt.

It got to the point that I had trouble sleeping, had a horrible self esteem. I would go through my head over and over what was wrong with me for him to treat me the way he did. I was actually on medication for this for a bit.

I'm out of the relationship now and i feel BETTER. i have not felt stressed or anxious since we last spoke 3 months ago.

i'm happy with my progress but i don't want to ever feel that way again. i didnt see it before, but i think the relationship was a trigger to my anxiety. how do i prevent this from happening in future relationships?

2007-09-16 13:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by autumn 1

2007-09-16 13:19:53 · 2 answers · asked by oryboy37 1

What are some common psychological factors in the personal background and family history of people who grow up to be overbearing tyrants, autocratic despots, domineering jerks, and intolerant control freaks?

2007-09-16 12:39:13 · 2 answers · asked by Rita K 1

I just want some insight into this, because I thought anyone in a healthy mental state would love their children and be proud of anything they were blessed with, instead of being jealous?
If you are a mom and find reason to be jealous of your daughter, can you tell me why, and if you think it is right?

Two examples:

I once saw a "Snapped" episode about a woman who ended up killing her daughters because she was jealous that they were so much thinner than she. She would force feed and abuse them constantly.
**If you don't know what Snapped is, it's a show that tells REAL stories of people who murdered others.

I noticed also that my friend's mother would be vicious about her large breasts. My friend told me her mom was always thin and had small breasts, and is self-conscious about them. The way her mom looked at her sometimes, you could tell she was bitter about it.

2007-09-16 12:32:22 · 17 answers · asked by Sambal Oelek 7

Many times, i just think too much. What can i do to just relax and take it easy instead of thinkin about so many things at a time my brain cant process it?

2007-09-16 12:31:09 · 7 answers · asked by Kensington 1

2007-09-16 12:18:23 · 15 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

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2007-09-16 12:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by BAMF. 6

Would you spend your life savings, go on a vacation, do something you always wanted to do, spend time with family etc... What would you do?

2007-09-16 12:07:38 · 29 answers · asked by Josh (Trust the universe?) 3

this british girl and a guy said to me no american persons will like me and all of them hate me because of my french nationality.
plus i know of a few people who are spreading bad rumours about me that are false, to make me look bad...how can i deal with this?
plus, do all americans hate me, dislike me?

2007-09-16 12:03:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked a question about this already and got some insightful answers about why I am so prone to lying—I think, as someone pointed out, I am afraid to take responsibility for my mistakes.
However, some of my lies don’t ever help me avoid responsibility in the least, so minor they are. And even if they did, I think I should stop anyhow.
What I’ve been doing so far was thinking, before I actually said something, is that true? Is that true? Recently I told the truth about how I broke my parents’ plate (I knocked it with my elbow into the sink—my lie would have been “fingers slipped on soap while washing dishes”).
But this is not easy. For hours, after a minor truth like that, my mind is racing if I could have lied somehow better.
Are there any better methods for keeping myself in check from lying?

2007-09-16 12:03:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 11:59:53 · 11 answers · asked by KatsLoveBug 3

2007-09-16 11:54:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not stupid i know something is wrong but i tried to tell my grandma, and she's been talking to my parents ever since on how to take care of my problems. I get hit a yelled and screamed at and then sent to my room over just about anything, and no one in my family talks to me, i want to tell my teacher so bad, but then i might not live here anymore, what do i do? I asked if they would send me away, but they screamed at me and said that that meant they were bad parents but they are... they tell me i'm the problem i'm the reason for their prombles, they even said i was gay cuz i kicke like a girl when they start hitting me. i want to tell a teacher, but is this really abuse or is this how parents punish?

2007-09-16 11:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 2