I'm not stupid i know something is wrong but i tried to tell my grandma, and she's been talking to my parents ever since on how to take care of my problems. I get hit a yelled and screamed at and then sent to my room over just about anything, and no one in my family talks to me, i want to tell my teacher so bad, but then i might not live here anymore, what do i do? I asked if they would send me away, but they screamed at me and said that that meant they were bad parents but they are... they tell me i'm the problem i'm the reason for their prombles, they even said i was gay cuz i kicke like a girl when they start hitting me. i want to tell a teacher, but is this really abuse or is this how parents punish?
2007-09-16 11:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Why would you be afraid of getting out of living like that? TELL SOMEONE! They will find you some place that is safer to live, and they will make your family get the lessons they need to be able to raise a child properly, and this should never happen again. Please, tell someone before it gets worse. You are never to be hit or beaten.
2007-09-16 11:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If everything you're saying is true, it's not the usual way for parents to discipline their children. Do you have a counselor at school? Maybe you can talk to them about general stuff and decide if you trust them, or they can recommend someone else to talk to. Teachers and counselors are "required reporters" meaning if they hear of child abuse they are required by law to report it, even if you ask them to keep a secret. You need to decide who you can trust to help you with your situation. Look in your local phone book for help, there should be numbers for confidential assistance.
Good Luck.
2007-09-16 11:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by Carol C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this- when issues like these occur, the child is absolutely NEVER the problem. You need to call the police immediately. Even if you do get taken away, which you won;t necessarily, wouldn't it be better than this?
Things are only going to get worse, and one day mom or dad is going to go too far. They obviously need help as well as you do. CALL THE POLICE
Good luck.
2007-09-16 11:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by DeltaKilo3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes mental abuse is very insidious. Phone child line or similar org,. Try bullying links like the following http://www.childline.org.uk/Bullying.asp
Good Luck
2007-09-16 11:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that made me so sad to read it you are being terribly abused, i have tears in my eyes. it hurts you more to stay there than not and you should go somewhere that you won't be told those awful things and be hit for everything like boystown USA or call 1800999-9999 to find out that or other options I know you love them but that is not how they should love you back.
2007-09-16 11:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel bad, u gotta tell ur teachers, i rather get sent away from those misreable people than to die with them cuz eventually they might kill u so go to police
2007-09-16 11:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your teacher right away. they keep on saying its your flault so they can feel good about themselves and make you feel like its really your flault buts its not. no kid should never be treated that way.
2007-09-16 11:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the police, its child abuse
2007-09-16 11:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell somebody, you shouldn't have to go through that...
2007-09-16 11:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋