Psychology - August 2007

there is so much hullaballoo in our country over castes. will be there be an end?

2007-08-18 06:10:48 · 6 answers · asked by jimmybond 6

you, to get you to think? people like this really upset me and make me angry.
what defense could i use against people like this, when i have to be in their company?

2007-08-18 05:50:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have no idea i camed from

2007-08-18 05:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by devid 1

i was in marketing field for 8 years but i am not interested in this field because the product i sell have no value and i feel like cheating the people. When i want to sell my heart should feel happy and using my brain i give more sales

2007-08-18 05:31:45 · 9 answers · asked by surenthra_28 1

It is a choice to stay stuck rather than to work at changing. It is easier to turn on the television for a moment and then watch it for an hour than to face your anger, despair and feelings of powerlessness.

2007-08-18 05:21:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you control the images pictured in your mind? Do you find that during stressful situations, it's harder to control your thoughts? Can you picture the people who you want in your mind? I feel like I'm the only one who can't control my thoughts.

2007-08-18 05:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm jealous of a lot of people but even more so with my close friend. I find it hard to be happy for him. How do I stop becoming jealous of other's possessions?

2007-08-18 03:33:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating her daughter for 6 months now. She's loved me so much since i've been involved in her daughters life. I've done a fair amount of things for her and her family, because I love them too.

But lately, she's been hinting to her daughter that there are other men out there. And that she's still really young to be wrapped up into someone. My girlfriend is 18, im 20. I was very hurt when my gf told me this.

Why would she all the sudden change her mind, in not liking me anymore...

*****

Her mother trusts me with her daughter. Or use to. We went to the beach for three days and slept together. My gf came to a bonfire camp out with drinking, and she slept over then. But the other day i wanted to have a small get together at my house and have her sleep over again and her mom blew up. Calling my family nuts.

Why is her mother changing?!?! Being more strict.

HELP

2007-08-18 03:26:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 03:04:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

idk how to stop putting myself down, all through my life there is always somebody saying i cant do it, im not a good person, im terrible, im pathetic, ima failure, or a doormat. I dont know why i continue to let this bother me. OK maybe i do have to just believe wat they say isnt true.. but i ve been hearing it for along time............ im always being to hard on myself and putting myself down, i no this is not healthy and i shouldnt be doing it........how can i stop?

2007-08-18 02:56:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every person has a share of happiness and despair in his/her life. It is a pursuit of extra happiness that drives people to take up such behaviour? Are bullies a little bit happier than others?

2007-08-18 02:47:39 · 25 answers · asked by Razor 5

2007-08-18 02:11:18 · 16 answers · asked by louise d 6

please give some tips to improve my intuiton right and use my intuition correctly without reasoning in every aspect of my life to get best and right result in every spere of my life. please help to do by give some fee tips though websites ,books etc to get fast result in quick time.

2007-08-18 01:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello there.

I'm a 19 year old and I'm deeply frustrated because I keep making mistakes with my work. I make some at home but its easier to keep them hidden and only affect me anyway. Often I become nervous with certain questions I should if not do know and can't think of an answer.

The main problem is I have a good memory in one respect, but in another I forgot something important or do and say the wrong thing and get in trouble. Its like this at my work, I got sacked from my old job as I'd keep forgetting simple things and now at risk of being sacked from this one.

I may just be completely incompetent, or simply due to such an extremely low self-confidence of myself. I don't enjoy being like this, and it makes me despair because how can I possibly keep down a job if this continues?

If anyone can offer me any advice I'd greatly appreciate it, or any jobs this sort of thing wouldn't be a problem? I usually use computers and am used to an office environment.

Thanks.

2007-08-18 01:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by Chris W 4

I have a small problem, i talk to myself. too much. i act as if im 2 people. I dont know what my problem is. Somebody help me?

2007-08-18 01:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This may seem stupid but im really scared of turning 20 in september, i feel like i havent acheived enough and dont feel ready to be twenty if that makes sense! can anyone give me any advice??

2007-08-18 01:07:19 · 19 answers · asked by eudilyte 2

In time, do we stop caring for what bothers us now?
And will it get better?

What do we do to help our selves?

2007-08-18 00:35:49 · 4 answers · asked by Luby 5

I FEEL WITHOUT LUCK AND ONLY HARDWORK NO ONE
CAN BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE,.

2007-08-18 00:35:20 · 14 answers · asked by pradeep k 1

okay, i had a very clear dream... and i've been thinking for the past 4 days, and I need some answers!!!

okay, say timetraveling was possible... and you go back intime to kill your grandfather before having your father! and you actually do kill him, what happens next?? Cause if you kill your grandfather, you're father would never be born, which also means you would be born. so0 if you were never born who was it that killed your grandfather? it didnt happen... but it did happen!!

2007-08-17 23:53:40 · 4 answers · asked by anthony_valverde796 1

i used to cut myslef alot when i was in highschool because i got bullied and didnt have very good friends. i did it because the pain you get from cutting has a calming effect and causes you to forget everything elce in the world. also i did it to stop me hurting other people as i often have urges to be very violent so i would hurt myslef instead of others. i managed to stop self harming as times got better. however last night two of my friends, my only friends, upset me to quite an extent and i didnt no what to do to get rid of the inside pain so i cut myself with a knife and ive woken up this morning with alot of blood on my clothes and ugly marks or my arm and thigh. i feel that i have to cut myslef otherwise i will end up doing something even more stupid as i often get very suisidal. i dont want to keep cutting so does anyone no another effective way of reliving inside pain, that doesnt include hurting myslelf or others

2007-08-17 23:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm talking physical and verbal and keeping in mind of todays society and what people are like right now.

2007-08-17 22:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was just wondering why.
Some of my friends did badly when they used to be one of the top students.
Dont know why.

2007-08-17 22:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3

2007-08-17 21:36:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

but the bad part is that people said she looks a little like me, though i am a pretty girl, but she was damn ugly. Whenever the thought of her comes in my mind, i just start feeling that i am so ugly, start feeling insecure, But when i look in the mirror it is the opposite cause i see that i am pretty. This has ruined my life, what do i do?

2007-08-17 21:28:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl from my gym have ben through racial dfferences(her being iranian me being asian). she knows i am a problemed guy and i've told her that i do drugs and alcohol,i have been tempermental towards her,and have had our differences and have been a time bobm,but howeever she will still continue to be polite cordial want my attention and has even smiled at me at times. What;s the deal?

2007-08-17 21:23:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why would one brag to someone who has accomplished more or is on a higher level on a particular topic? What's the psychology behind this? Is it meant to spawn a sense of competition, or to impress? Are they overly comfortable with the other person? Is it due to stupidity on the part of the braggart, because common sense should tell you that bragging usually doesn't endear one to others.

2007-08-17 21:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by questionable 2

mended, would it be ok to leave and make a life of your own. i mean why stay where people dont respect you as an individual. No matter how hard i try to control my anger (which is very hard for me), they are always trying to make me loose it. And when i am angry my whole mind just becomes out of control. It is really hard for me to keep myself in control. I have to try very hard for it. What would you say about this situation?

2007-08-17 21:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im always repeating what i have done for ex.
i open the televsion i knew that i press the button but i forgot that i push it , but deep in my mind i know that i push it, but i cant remember..
and then theres something deep inside of me thats telling me to repeat it... but if i didn't do it i feel that something is not right, its not normal, something is wrong.. and i feel weired..
then i turn the tv off.. and then i turn it on..and i make sure i remember that i turn it on.. if i forgot it.. i have to do it again..

and when i hear weired noises, i get scared...

thank you...
sorry if you cant fully understand it.. but pls understand it....

2007-08-17 21:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

if so do you also have very irrational thoughts, often times paranoid?

i do, and the thing is, is that even though i know that the weird thought isnt possible and is irrational i still get freaked out by it. and the worst part of it, is that i get afraid that i atualy BELEIVE the thought which makes me feel like im going crazy.

anybody else like this?


i coud get any random thought. like "what if my dog isnt my dog and somehow got switched somehow someway"

which clearly doesnt make sense yet its still an intrusive thought

2007-08-17 21:05:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is more emphasis placed on women to act "lady-like" than there is on men to act proper. For example, and don't deny it, but when a man shares a dirty joke, burps loudly and goes unshaven throughout the day, people generally dismiss these things. Imagine a woman who hasn't brushed her hair, farts loudly and laughs about it, and wears baggy clothes -- which image stands out the most to you? I'm sure it's the one of the woman.

So what is the purpose of being proper in regards to women? Men seem to be able to act however they like. What effect does it have on a man's testicles when a woman maintains properly groomed cuticles and pretends like her gender disables her farting and burping capabilities? Because I mean, we all know that women don't poop. A magical bowel fairy descends from the clouds, and with a wave from her sparkly, little wand, the poop is all gone! :)

2007-08-17 20:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous