What to look forward to, when you hate people for being disrespectful and rude?

Question

In time, do we stop caring for what bothers us now?
And will it get better?

What do we do to help our selves?

Answer 1

Hate?? Hey, come on. Ignore them. You are not being singled out. They are disrespectful and rude to everyone. I look forward to the continuing opportunity to learn about the planet I live on. It is necessary for the richer nations to provide not just money to the suffering populations, but to provide knowledge and instruction, and guidance.
People who have lived in sorta primitive tribes, have been displaced because of war, genocide, famine, illness, infanticide, and drought will not be able to utilize the tools and machines provided by the more fortunate from other nations.
Now then. Hate is such a limiting emotion. It is very powerful, and can be extremely destructive.
The best thing you can do to help the rude, and insensitive is to be nice to them. Tell them something good about themselves. No patronizing, only sincerity. Don't have to be saccharine. Just an honest comment about something positive about them. This is how you help yourself.

Answer 2

Yes, generally speaking, time makes certain things less painful emotionally. I remember being laid off from a job a while back. I knew it was only temporary, but I had heard from my supv. that I would be one of the last to remain on the job. when I was cut in the *next* to last round of terminations I was devastated. The other 5 workers only worked another month, but for a long time I wondered what made them change their minds. I was given a canned "It's just coming to the end of the job and we're having to let people go. Sorry." For 2 months I let this creep into my thoughts on a daily/nightly basis. I got over it.

4 days ago, my disabled husband was treated rudely and disrespected in a new doctor's office. I left there furious, ready to write a letter to every politician and the AMA. That incident is much less painful emotionally now.

How do you help yourself "forget"? Sometimes you don't really forget, it just gets less painful. You can help yourself emotionally by keeping busy, physicially and/or mentally. When you find your mind dwelling on things in the past that you can't change, get up and *do* something. Whether it's a good book, a good physical workout, anything to take your mind off what's bothering you, is what has always worked for me. Oh, and time, time usually heals.

Answer 3

Ever wonder are we creating the loss of peace on earth goodwill to men?
Or we look at the mess and try to solve the misery of living human kind in own backyards.
Do we try and trace the faults on how the mess was first created in the first place?
Instead most of us just throw the pots and pans that ended up in bashing up one another among our own kind in making a mess out there.
The blunders and slip-ups with human errors in the creation of living human kind into mankind of intelligent design to be the Son of God being created into defective, malfunction humanoids to be the Son of a dirty old man from the graveyards of the past getting ourselves kick on the butts with them living in misery out there.
Luke 11.46,52,
The blunders and slip-ups with human errors in idol worshiping the dead Mummy of failures and horrors of the past from the graveyards of different ghostly ancestor's custom in not worshiping God.
Luke 6.39-40,41-45,46-49
The blunders and slip-ups with human errors on the definition of worshiping God on planet earth in making a mess in own backyards.
Exodus 20.1-6

Answer 4

Take comfort in the fact that you do not possess the qualities you hate in your enemies.