If you had to choose, would you rather let out your anger at a stranger or someone in your family?

Question

I'm talking physical and verbal and keeping in mind of todays society and what people are like right now.

Answer 1

We have to think of our words are gifts to truly understand their value!

It may be helpful to think of yourself as the parent - how would you hear your words?

Try asking yourself - what’s the value of the gift I’m giving?

Life is short and having loved ones (family and friends) should be thought of as if they were the most precious occurrence in life. It’s hard to rationalize this when we’re young, but when we loss a love one - it’s devastating.

I vote for controlling our emotions and not letting our emotions control US!

This may be just a difference prospective of how you really feel anyway.

Answer 2

Breath in hate, breath out love. If your bursting will love let it out. If your full of judgments, hate and fear that takes up no space they need no venting, but a rewiring of the brain. They have medications for that and a change of thinking. New information rewires the brain. It was a mistake in psychology that they have corrected to compare anger to water under pressure in a pipe. Anger is caused by a pain or two which is bearable. The more we think and talk about it the worse it gets, not better and we punish ourselves for what someone else. That's our problem. Getting rid of it is done by being thankful, looking at all the wonderful things we do have, I assume you love yourself, forgive because now we are abusing ourselve 24/7 if we don't and that can kill us. The trick that did it all for me was switching to descriptive words instead of judgmental ones and I could see situations clearly and how I had it all wrong and felt compassion for others as they are full of love trying to survive with all the pain and you only feel their pain and yours. They may not even know much what they are sending out. It's like a virus and you don't want to catch it. Anger doesn't cure it, but makes it worse and blinds us to what's going on and the solutions. We have to reverse our thinking. You seem to be able to feel the pain and fear in others, but if you could 'see' it you would have compassion and that's love.. If it is objects you're angry at, my complaining stopped when I started looking at all I did have and here that's more than we deserve. We're just spoiled, but when we're thankful people give us more, including love. Love is within and we go within or go without.

Answer 3

family.
as long as u dont like
murder anyone
i do it all the time
see becuase if u let ur anger out to a stranger u'll scar them for life.

Answer 4

someone in my family. coz they would know that theres a reason behind my anger, they could they talk to me about it and discuss whats best to do in the situation

Answer 5

well, if you do that to a stranger, that person might end up killing you or plotting to kill you or do something else that's horrible. with family members they can forgive you. my answer is to not let it out on anyone at all. that's just bad.

Answer 6

It depends on who made me angry.