Psychology - January 2007

last week i went home from a meeting with two women who had good relaionships with their mothers, They know their mothers love them and they are close. I never had a good relationship with my mother growing up i had anger towards her cos she got rid of me a few time and told me she did not want me. one was showing off about her mother all the time, bit too close but i felt at a disadvantage. i never even liked my mother most of the time she ignored me alot put others and herself first like i was not important.

2007-01-25 20:42:54 · 10 answers · asked by denise g 2

I am a student, with a excellent academic record. For a few months I have lacked the blazing motivation that kept me on track and on top. Even though I try I can't retain and revive the determination I had. Please help me.

2007-01-25 20:07:27 · 16 answers · asked by sanjay4victory 1

Does this happen to you?
Not daydreaming, but actually in your dream.
Perfect in every way.

2007-01-25 20:02:20 · 24 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2

And live our lives how we want, with no intrusion.

2007-01-25 19:53:33 · 23 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2

2007-01-25 19:39:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this world appropriate for blind faith?
Is this world appropriate for the Gandians Princiles?
Is in this world (except 1% of people) selfish?
But I believed in blind Faith, Gandi's principles etc.

Now, is it appropriate that I should have blind faith on my parents who have already seen 15 boys for me? But not informed me till today and I came to know the same from many other persons or relatives. Now I am 33 and the parents want me (MA, BED) to get settled with a boy who is B.COm and live in a very small place where there is no opportunities. Actually I think they have no options left and they want me to get settled anyhow.
What shall I do now? Yes, it is possible that the boy may be more understanding then the previous ones and more better than them.
But should I meet the boy before any decision.

Looking for reply.

2007-01-25 19:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever had a fixation on someone, it could be someone you know or someone on TV. How did you get over it. I need help because I have a fixation on someone on TV and well I want my life back

2007-01-25 19:09:32 · 9 answers · asked by tnbadbunny 5

2007-01-25 19:08:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 19:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by pranee m 1

I have an overwhelming fear of spiders. I do not recall any past experience that would make me afraid of them, so I am wondering where this came from. Are you born with it? Why do some people have them when others don't?

2007-01-25 18:42:08 · 7 answers · asked by michellecdnd 3

For the last 5 or so years, I have not had one moment of fun, of living. It's like i'm forever trying to be in control of everything or something, i'm thinking maybe I put up some kind of barriers earlier in my life, & ever since it's like anything that is unknown to me gets held back untill I have control of it or something. I don't know.
It's been too long, i'm going mad.
Please help. I can't afford therapy.

2007-01-25 18:30:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had about 10 dreams of my girlfriend cheating on me in about the past month. I dont really feel like she is really cheating, so where is this coming from and how can I stop them?

2007-01-25 18:29:49 · 12 answers · asked by t_200774 3

I figured it would be a good idea to find someone who had the same problems I do have and managed to overcome them to serve as inspiration.

So there are two issues:

1. How can I discover (a) who I am and (b) my fears, limitations etc?

2. How can I find a person with a similar answer to (1a), that overcame (1b)?

2007-01-25 18:24:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i often have dreams of being in conflict with my step-son. what could this mean?

2007-01-25 18:18:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 18:01:31 · 14 answers · asked by Vasif Baig 4

Hi, I feel that i'm in problems, because althought I have everything i have deserved (money, friends, family, travels...) i feel empty, i cannot feel hapiness when i reach my goals, I have just achieved material goals, and some spirituals,but i feel empty, what could i do to improve this?

2007-01-25 17:50:53 · 15 answers · asked by Juan Felipe 2

Please help me if you can. What I thought of as a simple PMS, turned out into a feeling of complete hopelessness, maybe even anxiety attack. My business is not doing well; I am not making any money at all, and my relationship with my boyfriend seams to be sleeping away. It’s almost like I can’t get over the belief that I don’t deserve what I want in life. The feeling of not being worthy is wearing me out. I thought that I worked things out within myself, but apparently I missed something. I am desperately trying to hold on to the idea of going deep inside, quiet my thoughts, and I find myself having really hard time in doing so. Usually I end up falling a sleep and waking up with a sense of failure. Failure is pretty much what I feel most of the time. I always feel like I failed with everything in my life, like I never got anywhere, like I’ve been repeating my past over and over again. Why do I always feel like such a looser? Why am I always so harsh on myself? Why do I always have compassion for others, but none for myself?
How can I go deep within myself, for real, and once and for all put to rest all those thoughts, concerns and beliefs? How can I don’t fall a sleep while trying to do so? How can I find the peace within me? I know it’s there, how can I dig it out? How? How? How? For god’s sake; how? Tell me what to do.

2007-01-25 17:45:35 · 13 answers · asked by Elzbieta Trzeciak 1

i never want to be around people, most of the time i just hide out in my room, im home-schooled with a computer type program so i dont have to leave my room for that, and i have a ton of liquid and lots of books, so i rarely leave my room at all, and my dad has to actually force me to eat, i have no idea what is going on

2007-01-25 17:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by tmhangel 1

2007-01-25 17:06:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am so scared of death and what happens after you die. if i start to think about it i get short of breath and almost vomit. scares me lots.

2007-01-25 17:01:04 · 21 answers · asked by k 2

2007-01-25 16:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am terrified and want to get out of my dream but can't wake myself all the way up or move for help from my partner to wake me all the way up. It will happen repetitivley too, like I will feel like I'm about to wake my self all the way up, than ?I will feel myself falling deeper into the dream again. Eventually I wake all the way up and am terrified like what was happening in the dream was a real life experience. Does anyone know what might cause this and what it is called?

2007-01-25 16:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 16:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 16:28:03 · 8 answers · asked by Jubilee 2

2007-01-25 16:28:02 · 7 answers · asked by tongbahinee 2

Deep down I feel a lot of confict. I enjoy punk music, tattoos and skating. At the same time I like a good book and a night in perhaps with a game of chess. I feel like I have a split personality and feel guilty about wasting time no matter what I do.....so how can I balance myself better?

2007-01-25 16:24:25 · 20 answers · asked by SR13 6

When we discuss what we believe (subjectively) to be "right" or "wrong," the use of sin, sinner & sinning seems to be very controversial, perhaps because of the religious implications. This inhibits intellectual discourse as it then changes focus by creating conflict between the relgious & non-religious. Just reflecting on how that might help.

2007-01-25 16:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by Valac Gypsy 6

I am starting to practice as a Hypnotherapist, but do not have a Psychology degree yet, I am currently an undergraduate student of Psychology. I am hoping to find answers as to whether or not this is a good idea to pursue Hypnotherapy as a profession before I have a degree in Psychology. If no, what is your recommendation as to when I should start practicing? If yes, what is your opinion as to the best way to balance school and work (my private practice)? Plus, how would I deal with issues such as relocation because of transfering schools? Any other advice on the matter would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
-Yiu

2007-01-25 16:18:03 · 3 answers · asked by yiu 2

If so, what do they usually involve?

2007-01-25 16:17:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is what my teacher is asking me and i don't get, please help.
reflection on a time when the student felt loved.
what do you think she means by that?

2007-01-25 16:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by Countess Blavinskeya 2