Psychology - November 2006

Im 20 and at university on a course which requires me to interact with people. I find it very hard to talk to anyone, so i try to avoid people, which in turn is bringing me down even more. I love my family and see them often, but am mostly unable to communicate/ talk with them either. Help
Thankyou

2006-11-23 12:22:43 · 22 answers · asked by william a 1

I spend a year wiv pathologically jealous guy.I loved him very much,and still do,even thou,our relationship was very hurtful.he was nice for 6 monhts,after he started to be abusive,pushed me,broke many of my things,and was getting worse.he didnt have very good childhood,his mum took care of him and loved him very much,but there where other things what influenced him.in the end of our relationship he also beat me twice,after i left,and it has been 6months.i would love to be with him,because he is nice guy,even thou he has problem.he said he"l be different this time,because i left for such a long time and it made him see he cant treat me as he used to.I feel very hurt.it has been long time we are separ8,but my love isnt any weaker.l miss him so much.i never felt so scared and so lonely in my life,even tho i went thru breaking up wiv guy a was 6 years wiv.it was hard,but this is hard,as i love him so much.i would love to come back to him,but i keep away,cuz i feel that is right.

2006-11-23 12:09:18 · 23 answers · asked by Eli 2

2006-11-23 12:06:28 · 17 answers · asked by zappafan 6

A lot of people are not as lucky as us, or as fortunate, and today is a day of thanks. Do you ever think about that and think you're lucky to be able to have what you have?

2006-11-23 12:05:02 · 10 answers · asked by ♥#1 Miley Cyrus Fan♥ 5

I feel kind of trapped in the twilight.

2006-11-23 11:56:30 · 7 answers · asked by charleston chew 2

I Had A Dream Me And My Friend Were Pregnant...But Our Stomachs Was Flat (We Didnt Look Preg.)...I Have A Dream Book And Is Says Something About That But I Cant Find It...So Can You Please Help Me?

2006-11-23 11:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetness Shad... 2

how many of you love men, but just hate when they are rude, bossy and lazy? and when they think that we cannot do anything? and that they have to make up our minds for us? I'm NOT bashing men in particular, just the principle i guess. but OVERALL, women, who hates this about men sometimes?

2006-11-23 11:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by ♥#1 Miley Cyrus Fan♥ 5

I'm talking about motor skill acquisition. How many times do you have to repeat an action before you've done it enough? I'm trying to make my guitar practice efficient and I don't want to practice things more than necessary, but I also don't want to NOT do it enough. Do you know what the absolute minimum number of repetitions necessary before it is learned? Do you think if you just went through the action one time and you did it very carefully with attention, that that would be enough? I'm not talking about rehearsing something that you've already learned, I'm talking about learning something initially and reinforcing perfect technique. When I practice something that I already know, I don't worry about how many times I did it. I just wondered if anyone knows the minimum number of times that an action needs to be reinforced. For how long and how often should you practice? I've heard that 30 minutes per day is enough, but that is not enough for me because I enjoy playing guitar.

2006-11-23 11:32:35 · 5 answers · asked by conundrum 1

Well, to sum it up, I dated this guy for about five months.He happens tp be friends with an associate of mine,(the associate was my classmate and we tried to join the same soroity) As far as I knew from what he said about their relationship, she was just his best friend, and he was not attracted to her, because I wanted to make sure I didn't come between that..so a few weeks ago, he told me to never contace him again, and threatedned me, and told me that he would tell all the members' of thesoroity I almost joined all of my business, and also went on to tell me that he does have a girlfriend , and she is a member of that sorority, the next day, the associate(his best frined) called me to invite me to his political rally, and that was the only reason she called, so now I see her at school and she doesn't speak, I even sent her text message wishing her a happy thangsgiving and she never responded, so I don't know how to deal with this situation, why isn't she speaking to meand why he cut

2006-11-23 11:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1

The average citizen gets a score of 3 or 4.

A non-psychopathic criminal normally gets a score of 22.

A diagnosed psychopath gets a score of 30.

A prototypical pysychopath gets a score of 40.

I got a score of 26; what does this say about me?

2006-11-23 11:15:48 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel B 1

The earliest thing I can remember is sitting at the end of a bed. I was 6 months old. After that I remember playing in the front garden of our house. I was 5 years old. Curious to know what yours is. Thanks.

2006-11-23 11:10:04 · 14 answers · asked by RED-CHROME 6

Sometimes what are we want to be is not fit in condition of our life for certain reasons, e.g such as one wants to be;
-soccer player but no physically qualified- Dr. poverty problem- rocket scientist not enough IQ- Treasure Hunter, not in proper era -Detective, not mentally prepare.
anything U want to be; princess, spy, pirate, samurai, president, movie star, admiral, bread artisan, Oliympic gold medalist (anything U can think- as long its your dream) etc.

If U answer this question I believe it could give phsycologically effect to person who read Ur answer even for yourself.

2006-11-23 10:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by sly r 2

Sometimes I fear for my loved ones and I (uncontrollably) imagine hypothetical situations in which they die. This consequently makes me cry and feel depressed. And now that I'm involved with a girl whom I care for immensley I have become paranoid about not her death so much but more about her being untrue to me. I KNOW FOR SURE that she is 100% loyal but for some reason I keep imagining her doing something wrong and I keep getting this image in my head of her w/ some other guy. Why do I think like this? I don't want to b/c she's not that type of girl? Do I need help? What can I do to cure myself of this?

2006-11-23 10:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's really weird, she likes me to choke her during sex, and this seems counter-intuitive, due to the fact that choking someone is usually considered a hostile act, not one of love. I do that for her regardless because she likes it and it is kinda cool in a strange way, but I'm at a loss to understand this. I've heard it's not really that uncommon of a practice either, so (for the ladies mostly) my question is, what do you get out of this? What's going through your head etc? Just trying to better understand my own female here at home.

2006-11-23 10:43:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apparently, we all display some degree of obsessive behaviour, and we all have our little foibles.

I personally cannot go to bed without straightening the throws on the sofas and plumping the cushions - it actually makes me feel uncomfortable if I haven't done it.

What do you HAVE to do?

2006-11-23 10:42:34 · 22 answers · asked by Hello Dave 6

karma?

2006-11-23 10:07:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you don't get marry with the love of your life, but with someone else to build more peacefull life?

2006-11-23 10:07:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can one behave and stop caring about what other people think of them? how does ppl do this and how can they do it?

2006-11-23 10:02:48 · 33 answers · asked by blondedoll00 1

2006-11-23 10:02:15 · 2 answers · asked by jenre18 1

why is black considered such a negative color? why don't we paint any of our house walls black, or have black sheets, or avoid black clothes? Why is it considered so pessimistic

2006-11-23 09:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by tink 2

A few days ago,I had my computer quiz, I failed it and I feel really bad even though my teacher let me passed! I 've never failed a test in my life!!! or get a C!

2006-11-23 09:54:53 · 10 answers · asked by cute babe 1

Why do people feel a need to curse when they are angry? I'm writing a research paper and would like to know what other people think.

2006-11-23 09:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by TJ 1

Nobody with actual clinical depression wakes up and decides "gee I am going to make myself feel miserable". It irks me when people who have never suffered with depression assume that if you just started thinking positive happy thoughts then all would be well. But what if you do try to think positive but the lethargy and sick empty feeling persist?? How do you stop the urge to cry over absolutely nothing?? The urge to cry is a physical letdown. One does not even have to be sad about anything to cry. How do you explain to someone that you exercise, eat right, work on personal issues and take wonderful new medicines but sometimes even this isn't enough. How do you make someone understand that there is nothing negative going on in your current personal life that is bothering you and that you have little stress but still seem to have a sad feeling that seems to hang on to your physical self like a demon that won't go away no matter how hard you work at it. Where is the "option"?

2006-11-23 09:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by iwanln 2

my partner keeps on saying ive a mental problem just like him just cos i lose my rag at him for nasty words he says to me i think im justified in doing so thats my only defence im not a person to back down and be half a shell of a person and to be abused by nasty comments about my personalit, when he knows his loosing he blocks me of or puts the phone down on me and trys to make me look the totally idiot in front of people and i stand my ground.

2006-11-23 09:41:33 · 3 answers · asked by A A 2

just want to know what does girls think about it, i have alway's known to be a beter person is to have a great heart. am really confused!!!

2006-11-23 09:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 09:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by Chris M 3

i normally dream every night but forget it after 5 mins of waking up...what sort of dream would be sure to stick in my head??x

2006-11-23 09:28:28 · 29 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

or does it leave you with irreparable damage?

2006-11-23 09:21:31 · 17 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

2006-11-23 08:45:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

it really hard for me to fall asleep, and i can never stop moving.also, im either really depressed or really happy, never anywhere in between. what is wrong with me?

2006-11-23 08:40:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous