Well, to sum it up, I dated this guy for about five months.He happens tp be friends with an associate of mine,(the associate was my classmate and we tried to join the same soroity) As far as I knew from what he said about their relationship, she was just his best friend, and he was not attracted to her, because I wanted to make sure I didn't come between that..so a few weeks ago, he told me to never contace him again, and threatedned me, and told me that he would tell all the members' of thesoroity I almost joined all of my business, and also went on to tell me that he does have a girlfriend , and she is a member of that sorority, the next day, the associate(his best frined) called me to invite me to his political rally, and that was the only reason she called, so now I see her at school and she doesn't speak, I even sent her text message wishing her a happy thangsgiving and she never responded, so I don't know how to deal with this situation, why isn't she speaking to meand why he cut
2006-11-23 11:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like a real mess... please don't be so upset. Calm down and stop thinking about it for a while. Really you can analyze these things to death and it'll just make you feel more miserable. So just let it go, and after some time has passed everything will become clear to you, and you'll know what to do. Everything will turn out alright.
2006-11-23 11:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 00:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five months - just long enough to get your feelings hurt. I once wrote a short story about something similar that happened to me way back in college, then I stressed over it for a few more months. If you can, just jump into another group of friends or another social or service opportunity. That will help a lot. Don't let how others treat you get you down. You can rise above it.
2006-11-23 11:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, the world is full of jerks. Get over it. Like you said, it's a stupid, unimportant situation. Besides, this question has no business on the Psych page. Move it over to "relationships" or something like that where you can get some teenie girls to answer it. It's the kind of thing they like
2006-11-23 11:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about these emotional people. Just get on with your studies.
You will meet other people with whom you can enjoy yourself.
2006-11-23 11:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....i'd say you know more about the situation than us. i'm sure that there are details that would explain it....but from what you've written - there is no way to say.
2006-11-23 11:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by mikesheppard 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋