just want to know what does girls think about it, i have alway's known to be a beter person is to have a great heart. am really confused!!!
2006-11-23 09:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Kindness is often mistaken as weakness by others of both gender. Do not allow other people to mold who you are, although this is easier said than done. Eventually, "soft at heart" is what you will be judged by when it really matters.
2006-11-23 09:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by WHYTIME 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girls love softy's, but never be too available for them, they also like the softy to be a bit of a beast, sometimes.........but dont change the good quality you have, some day the right girl will come along, and love you for what you are, and you wont have to worry if you are a softy or not, but for now, get out and enjoy your life, and dont try too hard to impress the gals.
2006-11-23 17:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by irish dubliner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know that some women like their guys to be very masculine and macho, though i don't have a problem whatsoever against guys being emotional and showing a sensitive side to their character. it goes to show that a) they are human just like women and b) at least they are not ashamed or afraid of expressing their emotions. besides, at least they care about other people and the things which matter most to them. even though you said you are confused, i'd say don't be. there is absolutely nothing wrong being a big softy. it does not make you gay, not does it imply that you are weak. far from it, it means you are a down-to-earth, some would say sensitive person too. you may not fit the so-called (alpha) male 'stereotype' but you are your own person and things such as crying are natural behaviours we all experience as human beings and is thus, nothing to be ashamed of.
hope this helps. besides, its good to ball your eyes out!
2006-11-25 16:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a softie. Most girls are not naturally attracted to softies but we are the best Dads so family minded girls are usually most interested.
2006-12-01 09:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by vijay_rangari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for every girl out there but I know that i prefer a guy who has a kind heart and a sensitive soul. There are girls who like guys who are soft at heart and then there are girls who look for guys who are rough around the edges... I think for the most part a softer guy could be more greatly appreciated i like to think that people like that are kinder and more easy to get along with
2006-11-23 17:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To have a big heart doesn't mean yo uare softy. That means you are e great man...just try someone not to take advantage of that and get hurt.
good luck.
2006-11-23 17:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by invisible1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of girls, ones who like softies and ones who don't. The ones who don't spend most of their time complaining how insensitive their partners are!
2006-11-24 04:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on where you go to meet girls. the first thing people see when they look at people is their looks and their physique, not their manner or their personality. girls will argue with you til they're blue in the face that all they want is a nice caring guy who's kind and caring and loves them and stuff like that but in reality that's utter nonsense. they want a good looking bloke with a muscular figure and if he can't spell or speak properly then it matters not. Fickle my friend, fickle!!
2006-11-28 11:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Missing Link 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I respect a guy for who they are but I don't speak for all the girls
2006-11-23 20:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is. There are three type of guys.
Handsome
Caring/ Sensitive
And the Majority.
2006-11-23 17:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by hugh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋