im on holiday (in africa), travelling in a tour bus. there is a group of 6 of us, 5 men and 1 woman. (im one of the guys.) anyway, one of the guys has established himself as the alpha male in our group (by being sporty and showing he is physically the strongest.) this is ok with me, apart from the fact that he is being really mean to me! i am more confident than him when it comes to talking to girls, and when were in bars i often dance on my own and people are impressed wtih my dancing, but he isnt confident enough at dancing to do that. so now that he sees im more confident in some ways than him, he sees me as a threat, so he insults me and makes jokes about me. its getting really annoying! its actually getting me down a bit too. its harder to enjoy it with him breathing down my neck the whole time. he also lies quite a lot to sound impressive or to assert his position as alpha male. what should i do to get him off my back?
thanks in advance
2007-02-08
05:30:33
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john9999999
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