ok, so I am a 29 successful woman w/ 2 children I have been raising for the last 11 years. Here's the deal, I guess I am a sucker but I have a current boyfriend that lives with me and I support financially along with my kids. I just found out we are pregnant. Now, I want another baby. But his reponse was devasting, when I asked him if he he'd stand by my decision or leave me (the last dad left) he told me "he didn't know". So I feel like a chump! I have supported him and been there in alot of ways for him, and I cant believe he "doesn't know" if he'd stay with me now??? And after it all, I tells me I mean the world the world to him and he loves me. But my trust and security in this 90/10 relationship is shattered. I dont know if I should keep the baby and throw his *** out regardless or what. What kind of man uses all a woman's resources just to turn his back when the stakes get high. Sounds to me like a relationship of convience to him....
2007-05-05
15:01:08
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Rebecca R
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