i am a first time mom of a 10 month old and i love him so much and everyone says i'm a great mom,very caring and patient with him and sensitive to his needs, but sometimes i don't even feel like i'm a mother. what i mean is, like, if he's asleep and i go into the bedroom for something, i'm surprised that he is there,like i have never seen him before in my life. and although most of the time i feel okay, at least once a week i feel so depressed that i cry and when my husband asks me what is the matter, i can't tell him because i don't even know what is the matter with me, and sometimes i'll get mad at my husband for no reason at all. it's like i can't control it, it just crashes over me like a wave.has anyone esle had this happen to them, and if so, could you tell me how to help it? when my husband see's that i am not feeling well, he'll take the baby to give me a break,but when he does that i feel worse. please, any advise? i hate feeling like this!
2006-07-05
05:16:23
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littlewind
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