Pregnancy & Parenting - 2 January 2007

I'm 13 weeks into my first pregnancy and I am at risk for having an incompetent cervix (I had part of my cervix removed a couple years ago from dysplasia). I have seen my OB twice and a specialist once (so far, so good). I go again to both docs next week. My specialist said they typically don't do a cerclage (stitch up the cervix) until you've lost 2 or 3 pregnancies. Call me crazy, but my husband and I would rather not "wait" until that happens (especially since we know I am already at a higher risk). My regular OB said they wouldn't wait for it to happen (they will just keep watching me). I'm still nervous that if I need it, it could be too late by the time they realize it. Why can't they just do the cerclage anyway? I know that if your cervix dialates 4 cm or more you can't do it. Has anyone ever had a cerclage done before the cervix started opening (as a preventative measure)?

2007-01-02 04:19:36 · 8 answers · asked by Lindsay C 1 in Pregnancy

before he was 5-6 month(especially babies 1-3month) just so you could sleep well at night?

2007-01-02 04:18:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

Now, i understand that the best time is when she is ovulating however, i know everyone will say that everytime you have unprotected sex there is a chance. Im not looking for a factual answer but all i want to know is what are the odds of concieving while not having sex on her "dates". Is it that significant that you will most likely become pregnant if you do on those days? oppossed to other times?

2007-01-02 04:15:48 · 13 answers · asked by CURSE 1 in Trying to Conceive

I have been bleeding like a normal period but I have no cramps and I normally do I am constantly nauseated and I never and with my periods. My lower back hurts and I have a little tenderness in my breasts and abdomin could I be pregnant?

2007-01-02 04:12:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

My husband, 14 month old daughter and I live in the Caribbean, and we have been home to old blighty for Xmas.
The flight is 11 longs, and on the way out my daughter just got really angry, over tired, uncomfortable and frustrated. There was nothing we could do to comfort her and she screamed blue murder most of the way.
Not only was it completely exhausting for her and us, but all the other passengers were ready to kill us by the end of it.
How can I help her relax - I tried Calpol but it didnt work. Any other child friendly drugs I can use? Does anyone have any tips?

2007-01-02 04:12:41 · 22 answers · asked by lovethesun 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

My son hardly eats. I have worked out that he is only eating/drinking around 600/700 calories a day. I have read that for his length he should be getting around 1100.

I'm totally out of ideas. I have him drinking pediasure just so he gets something in him. He will try pretty much everything I offer, but usually spits most of it out.

I'm just worried he is not getting enough of anything to enable him to grow at a healthy rate.

2007-01-02 04:12:05 · 12 answers · asked by HEIDI L 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

Twins run in my family. My mom's grandma had a twin. none of her 3 kids were twins. None of their kids were twins. My mom and her brothers were not twins. Is it possible that I had a twin that died at birth? My mom said that she bleed a lot when I was inside of her. My mom's cousins are twins. My dad's grandma had twins that died at birth.

2007-01-02 04:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by .lyssa<3 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I had a m/c on the 5th Nov, i had a very painful period six weeks later. Since then me and my partner have been trying to conceive again. The last couple of days i have had pulling pains down bwlow, this is the only way i can explain them. Today I have notice little amounts of blood in a small string like form... what could this be. I am not due my monthly cycle till a week fri my last cycle began on the 15th Dec. I am so hoping to of conceived this month but its not looking likely is it. I am also having slight cramping pains in my tummy. Has anybody experienced similar symptoms

2007-01-02 04:10:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive

I have a darling six month old boy. I am a stay at home mom looking for something fun we can go out and do together. Has anyone taken the mommy and me swim lessons with a child this young? They are offered for children 6 months- 3 years. Do you think that he would enjoy it or would you wait until summer when he is closer to one year? Just curious. Do you have any other suggestions of fun activities we can do together during these winter months?

2007-01-02 04:07:19 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

I just need to know if there is something wrong with me or maybe my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years but we just got serious about having a baby and its not working. I need help or answers. Thank you.

2007-01-02 04:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by Dolly K 1 in Trying to Conceive

2007-01-02 04:05:04 · 1 answers · asked by jillscowboys 2 in Parenting

Just today my daughter has been pulling at her diaper and crying, the first time she did it I just thought she wanted her diaper changed so I changed it, and she was fine for a bit then about and hour later she was doing it again, crying at pulling at it.What is wrong with her? She doesn't seem sick or anything and has a normal temperature. I haven't introduced her to the potty so I don't know what could be going on, she has never done this before.Any experiences?

2007-01-02 04:04:58 · 27 answers · asked by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

Over the weekend I had an episode of vaginal pressure lasting about a minute or so. Now, for the last 2 days I've had this wierd vaginal feeling. It almost reminds me of when you get a pap test done and can feel the mild scraping. Occasionally I have that fleeting feeling of pressure. This is my first pregnancy and I don't know if this is normal or not. Could it just be my body adjusting to the weight of the baby? Or does this sound like a symptom of incompetent cervix? I don't have any of the typical warning factors. I made an appointment with the doctor. I'm going this afternoon to get checked out just to make sure. Can anyone offer advice or personal experience??

2007-01-02 04:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by pack513 4 in Pregnancy

I'm really excited about breastfeeding, I think its the best thing you can give your child. I also have some concerns..What if my milk doesn't come in on time? I don't wanna feel like I'm starving my baby. Thanks for your advice

2007-01-02 03:59:25 · 30 answers · asked by cirnrab 3 in Newborn & Baby

The question tilte might have confused you after reading this.
I'm 20 years old ,I do have alot of experience with children. This is my first I've bought the basiscs but I know there is alot more that needs to be bought. I already bought clothes 0-3,3-6,and a couple of 6-9 month clothing. I've bought cases of pampers 2, pacifiers,bottles and bottle washers, about 4-5 recieveing blankets, 2 quilts, snow suit, soks,undershirts about8 pks in different sizes ,a crib, a bouncer,a small diaper bag.
I know that a baby needs a stroller ,a carseat, a swing for the days I don't want to keep rocking him ,a high chair, toys, maybe a play-yard. But I know I am forgeting something maybe you can help me out I'm due next month on the 15th yes the day after Valentines day.LOL I was surprised to hear it to! I'd like to get him a bassinett this weekend. I just feel like I'm missing a whole lot that he is suppose to have. Is it just me?

2007-01-02 03:58:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

I am 42 years old and I have had 3 miscarriges in the last 12 months and 1 two years ago the fist one was at 12 weeks and the remaining 3 were 7 weeks 1 day, 5 weeks 6 days and the last one was 5 weeks 1 day. I have been taking folic acid and other vitimins sugested for conception and pregnancy and have been avoiding alcohol.
I dont smoke and I have been carful about what I eat.
I dont drink tea or coffee. I only drink green tea. I do reduce the number of cups of green tea I drink to 3 cups a day while I am pregnant.I have read so many different articals about miscarriage that I am now totally confussed. is there anything anyone can suggest to allow me and my husband have a healthy baby.

2007-01-02 03:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Pregnancy

I have moved to the US on a dependent visa. All health insurance companies I contacted so far have a waiting period of 12 months for availing maternity benefits. I want to start planning a family sometime this year.. Is there any health insurance which does not have a waiting period? Pls help!!!

2007-01-02 03:56:25 · 3 answers · asked by Sonica 1 in Pregnancy

My son is fourteen and I have four younger kids who are 12,5,3 and 1. My husband and I go out every Friday night for a meal and a few drinks and we are usually home by 12.30 at the latest. We always ask our neighbour's daughter(and sometimes her boyfriend very nice also) to sit for us.She is 16 and very good with the kids.Now that my son is 14 he says he doesn't need a sitter but I dont trust him with all four of the younger kids, and I think it is too much of a responsibility for him.I also like him to be in bed by 10.30 at the weekends as he plays sport on a Saturday morning. I can't tell him this as I don't want him to feel like I'm treating him as a kid. He is just not responsible enough the sitter even tells me that she always has to tell him to go to bed that he would never go of his own accord. I know it is embarrassing for him but what else can I do, I gove him responsilbility in other areas, but am I wrong to undermine his ability to sit for his younger siblings?

2007-01-02 03:54:55 · 27 answers · asked by strictmom 3 in Parenting

ok so me and my girl friend were totally undressed i got over her back and by mistake my penis touched the tip of her vagina i removed it at tht moment only and we immediately got apart from each other neither did i ejaculate at tht point of time nor i did before it i am only fearing because the penis gets a bit wet and sticky even if u havent ejaculated due to continuous stimulation and erection isnt it so is there any danger of her getting pregnant we are reallly very tensed and if something like tht happens the only option left for us will be to end ourselves pleasee i am very worried please dont be rude it will be a favour i know we did a mistake please tell me is there any risk involved in this and wht can be done to handle the situation i am 19 and she is 17 please help me i will be veryyyy thankful

2007-01-02 03:54:26 · 11 answers · asked by motorazr_cool 1 in Pregnancy

I know you stop having periods after awhile but how and when do you actually know? What changes of the body should I look out for?

2007-01-02 03:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Pregnancy

I'm 13 weeks and am at a higher risk for an incompetent cervix (I've had surgery on it in the past). I have been to my regular OB twice and a specialist once so far to check my cervix (everything so far looks good). I see both docs again next week. If it starts to look like my cervix is opening, I will have a cerclage done (and limited activity). My OB has already told me to stop having intercourse (but I didn't ask about having orgasms other ways). I'll definitely ask them next week, but does anyone have any advice for now?

2007-01-02 03:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by Lindsay C 1 in Pregnancy

If you are marrying someone who already has a child for sake of example a girl and he says that his daughter will always come first is that the way its supposed to be? Should you accept that as just a consequence of being a step-parent? Or should that be a warning sign that maybe hes not ready to marry?

2007-01-02 03:49:36 · 40 answers · asked by whitney w 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

baby gone bonkers!

2007-01-02 03:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by Robfev 2 in Newborn & Baby

I worry so much that a situation will arise where Ill have to save my two small kids and worry I cant. Has anyone actually been in a situation like that? Any pointers I can inbed in my brain?

2007-01-02 03:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Parenting

i have been having unprotected sex quite alot recently but he has been pulling about when he is about to ***. cud there be any chance i am pregnant?

2007-01-02 03:48:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I'm 19 weeks pregnant and for about a week I was having brown discharge then it stopped and now today I'm bleeding almost like my period. I don't have any cramps and I tried to call my doctors office but they are closed today! What should I do? I'm really scared and worried!

2007-01-02 03:47:12 · 16 answers · asked by Keona 2 in Pregnancy

Are you pro choice when the pregnancy isnt the one you wanted?

2007-01-02 03:44:29 · 31 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Pregnancy

conceive? I am getting ready to stop my BC pills, as my husband and I have decided to start trying to have a baby. I have been on them regularly for 2 years. Just wondering how long it took everyone....

2007-01-02 03:43:53 · 22 answers · asked by Baby #1 born August 2009 6 in Pregnancy

2007-01-02 03:43:18 · 1 answers · asked by LiSa B 3 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2007-01-02 03:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsay C 1 in Pregnancy