He lives in Atlanta and he refuses to pay stating that I wont let her come to Atlanta to visit. He wants me to spend my own money to get her there and leave her there saying he'll bring her back. He's never paid Child support even before he started making that ridiculous request. Just a more convenient excuse now. She doesnt know him because he chose to move to Atlanta when she was 2, she's 8 now. He calls every blue moon, sometimes i have to make her come to the phone. His parents totally love her and are there for her always, she loves them. She's their first and only grandchild. He's saying he'll be in for Xmas but he hasnt ask me what she needs or wants. I dont intend to change my plans when he gets here just to accomdate him, yet i dont want to hurt his parents what should i do. I've filed for support but i cant make him be a father should I give up. I dont have any feelings 4 him men who dont take care of their children disgust me, I have no use 4 them. I have 0 respect 4 he
2006-12-06
06:20:45
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