Over the years I've battled with a great deal of emotional pain because of my past. As you can imagine, there are periods when I was not fully there "emotionally" as a parent due to depression, anxiety, self-medicating(food for me), and anger.
I've recently accepted God into my life, and I'm dedicated to changing and improving for God, myself, and my child who is now a young adult. I've seen more improvement the last two months, than I have in years. I don't think children put much faith in you when you say you're getting better, after they've heard it awhile without seeing results.
If you were a parent in this situation, did you offer the same promises again, or did you just do all that you promised without discussing it, and show your child unconditional love? If you're a young adult in your 20's, what would you prefer to see or hear from you parent? I've thought of just sitting down explaining things, expressing my love, and then let actions speak for me. Thanks
2006-12-24
10:37:14
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