ok, im weird like this but- lately ive always been thinking about this girl ( im not gay or anything like that ) I used to be jealous of her but now i dont even know why... but anyways last year i never did but sometimes like i dunno, i like make myself think of stupid stuff - like that girl.. so what im asking is, is there any way i can stop thinking of her?.. and by the way its not like every moment, its just when im not occupied
2006-12-24 11:12:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
hi there, when you think of this girl what are the feelings like ? friendship or something else? how old r u ? what are your feeling towards men and women regarding love? these are just a few questions you have to ask your self. if your feeling for this girl is just friendship then call her get together have a party things friends do . hey u never know if she be your bridesmaid at your wedding. it's good to have Friends a best friend. nothing wrong about thinking about a person now and then. maybe you care for her as a good friends that u are .and don't be jealous of anyone hey you never know whose jealous of you . just know how to pick your friends and make yourself happy as for them as well. only u can stop thinking about her u have to find within yourself why u do think about her . all we can do is advise you. take care be well happy holidays god bless. nothing wrong in thinking of others and no thinking of things is not stupit it is just a normal things a human can do .
2006-12-24 11:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now dont mind but r u transgender , I mean u look like a girl but mentally u r a guy? If u say u r not gay then why r u thinking abt this girl? I think u need pschological help be4 its too late.
By the way dont mind okay? u asked a question and I answered.
Bye
2006-12-24 19:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by njds13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about God. God is the source of all goodness and everything we really desire for ourselves. Jesus died on the cruel Cross so that we can be redeemed for Himself. We can have fantastic and meaningful life if we take His Word by faith.
2006-12-24 19:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop your desire for things to have been different in the past, and you will cease being occupied by thoughts of her.
2006-12-24 20:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is gay because they think of the person of the same sex, the only reason you may think of this one girl is because she may have something you wish you had? like her stomach for example? it just may be a start to or of something.
2006-12-28 16:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by americansugar80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy. If you still have a problem you need to talk to a professional to help you figure out why you are so obsessed with those thoughts.
2006-12-24 19:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋