what should i do my fiance ask me to movie with knowing that i suppose to help my sis take care of her baby she has paranoid schizophrenia so thats why she needs help
2006-12-24 07:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
he wants me to move miles away from my family to be with him
2006-12-24 07:37:33 · update #1
SORRY I MEANT MY FIANCE ASK ME TO MOVE WITH HIM MILES AWAY
2006-12-24 07:46:13 · update #2
him if he loves you he will understand you
2006-12-24 07:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Andres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay did he invite you to go see a movie? and you usually help
out taking care of your sisters child? Well if that is the case, try
to get a sitter, just until you both get some quality time, you both
earn it and if you don't he will stop loosening interest or worst
start looking somewhere else. Ask a other Family member or a
close friend just for a few hours. I know your sister needs you, but
so does your husband. He must be a very understandable man
and that is a good thing, so don't loose a good thing. Try it is just
for the week-ends only, she has you all week. Oh sure now that
I wrote all this you add on. Well he wants you to move away,
Tuff decision, Do you have Power Of Attorney? if not have you
asked if they can come along? after all he knows her state of mine. And there is help out there and both can come to some
agreement to where she san come and with her income and
both of yours, all of you can help each other out, no one is left out
and no one leaches on. So start talking and start asking and
all he can do is say NO, and if that happens you seriously need
to look for help for her and her child because she does not need
to be left alone. And if he found a place let him know that you
can not leave until she and the child is settle in and is safe. If
he is understanding then he will either wait, let her go, or just
go ahead with out you and wait over there without you. What
ever it takes make sure something is done. And Good Luck to
Your Sister, Her Child, And Yourself.
2006-12-24 15:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely help your sister. You and your fiance will have to work out bigger problems than this when married. Why not rent a video and watch it at home? If your fiance isn't OK with this he will just have to get over it.
2006-12-24 15:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by formerly_bob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain again to the fiance about watching the baby. Maybe ask him/her over to watch the baby with you and bring a dvd to watch.
2006-12-24 15:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explane to your fiance to be content with your sis need to help her in this condition
2006-12-24 15:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Conan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you family must come first ,they have been there you whole life ,this guy you meet when ??he should be more thoughtfull ,would he leave a member of his family if they needed him ,?.if he loves you he will not make you do this he will understand and help you if he cant then maybe hes just not for you ,,,
2006-12-24 17:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important?
2006-12-24 15:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important to you? it's not my opinion that counts, it's yours.
2006-12-25 03:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by Black Rainbow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋