I have a friend, an adult, with Asperger's Syndrome.
He's occasionally upset, very upset, very hair-trigger upset, and can have a bit of a tantrum about it; nothing too bizarre -- just enough for others to think he's a complete ****, or on drugs, mean, rude, or, well, nothing very good. The things that cause the upsets are not things that would upset normal people nearly so much; it looks ridiculous -- and rude -- to others.
He's quite successful career-wise, well-educated, and polite and kind to an extreme when being 'normal,' so the off-kilter stuff comes as all the more of a shock to others.
I may be too tolerant -- this has sometimes involved me being mildly yelled at on the street, etc -- but this is somebody I care about, and -- well, anyway.
How do I best do damage control? Apologies are required, but is there anything I can say by way of explanation -- something to indicate that I know it isn't normal, but that in this case, it's nothing to worry about?
2006-10-13
13:52:13
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