Ok, there's this kid in my class, he's weird. I say it like that not to be mean or rude [cuz I'm nothing of the sort] but to tell the truth. He has like no 'friends' that he hangs out with, he seems really really tense all the time. He has sort of an attitude problem, like if someone touches him just as a joke [like flicks the back of his head (I know no one would really like that)] he'll turn around, smile this weird smile and be like "plz don't do that. thankyou." I just want to know what kinda mental problem he has, cuz I know it's not normal. This type of stuff interests me. Sorry if I sound really mean or rude about it.
2006-10-13 16:48:38 · 37 answers · asked by K 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
ima jus summerize wut ima say ....... cuz its real long............ok he is probably reacting that way as a result of a psychological problem........ he is nott mental but somethin probably happened to him in the past that causes himt o act the way he does ...... some what anti-social and has not yet learnt to trust ppl....... its all based n whatever happend to him back then....... dont tease him for it ..... cuz ull never kno wut happened to him unless he opens up ........ he is not geeky nor is he a nerd..... ppl these days need to understand that..... there are many unthinkable situations that many a ppl can get into or is born into and as a a results the psychological mentality of that person is affected..... this 'guy' in this case is probably acting that way as a side effect of whatever happened to him... i assure u he is perfectly normal!! dont treat him otherwise!it could have happened to u!
2006-10-13 17:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by kymz 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think about this way... What would your life be like if you had no friends, and you were picked on all the time? Basically, your classmates chose you to be the outcast. That's a very difficult, and lonely way to live.
From experience, the kids that were "weird" when I was in school, were very intelligent and simply lacked social skills. Everyone communicates differently. Some people are introverts, meaning they are drained by social situations, or extroverts, who are charged up and crave social interaction. Even further then that, there are 3 main communication styles, emotive (emotion based), kinetic (movers/doers), or cognitive (thinkers). If this young man is cognitive, he will definitely lack social skills, and prefer time alone to think. His "weird" rebuttal to the flicks, is simply communication style and his defense mechanism. Instead of starting a fight, he chooses to be polite and request it to cease. What's wrong with that?
Instead of running with the pack, make the decision to seize your divine moment, and make friends with this guy. You may not be as popular because of it, and you may need to spend time gaining his trust, but the rewards could be huge. Think about it this way, Bill Gates was a total "nerd" and outcast. I bet he is still close with the few who befriended him and had confidence in him. Oh wait, they help run his company and are millionaires! Ha!
Bottom line, instead of standing around and watching his life be miserable, be a friend, and possibly make a difference in his life. Friendhsip last a lot longer then being popular in school!
2006-10-13 17:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Choochie Larue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm not being rude, yet this kind of cellular telephone the guy had actual entered your innovations? What? you will discover that usually the human beings who do not care as plenty approximately worldly issues are those that care approximately issues that are quite considerable in existence. This guy which you're with and have an interest in hardly listens to you? you're able to nicely have an interest in him because of the way he clothing and the failings he has and all that...yet you will not be questioning of somebody else if the guy you're with is definitely who you needed. I could desire to apply the previous cliche...never decide a e book by utilising it quite is cover. appropriate needs!
2016-11-28 04:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god-son, has an OCD that makes him do things like this. Try to be a friend to this kid. Just going to school, is probably a terrifying experience for him. You won't believe, how just one genuine, kind act from a class-mate would make his day! Set a good example for the rest of the kids!! You sound like a bright girl. Bright enough to know, that teasing a child that is 'weird" can truly devastate him. Stick up for this poor child! He needs a friend!
2006-10-13 17:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't necessarily mean he has a mental problem. Some people are out of the ordinary, but that doesn't make them have a mental problem. This boy is probably raised in a family that society views as abnormal. It's just the way they act.
2006-10-13 17:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Naked 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psychological problems can come from all sorts of things. It could be physical (a chemical imbalance) but usually it's from trauma in childhood. If you could watch him throughout his day, and see what he must endure at his home, you may have great empathy for him. That's the whole idea in the saying "walking in a man's shoes". Sometimes it's just amazing that people can even survive their childhood.
2006-10-13 16:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a mental problem. He's just an introvert and keeps to himself. His friends may be from a different school or something. And the flicking thing is him just being a muture and civilized individual.
2006-10-13 16:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ria L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
masybe the kid has had a very very tough home life, and sems to be wierd and out of place, hons, we aent telling you too, instantly like him, but dont judger him hons unless you really try and undrerstand weres hes coming from he might have had a very tough time in his life and needs all the friends he can get too try and understand him it sounds like he wil sadly never make it in his young life bye the time its al over he may just committ sucide if some body dosent reach out to him and understand him and bring him back too life siting downe with him as a friend instead of judging him might help him to straighten his act out he needs somebody fast. a good solidd friend.
2006-10-13 16:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Theres someone like that in my class 2. maybe he has autism or something because people like that normally have a hard time making and or keeping friends. They also have hot tempers and dont communicate the same way a normal person does.
2006-10-13 16:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It means if you keep being an asshole to this guy he is likely to come to school one day with firearms. After walking down the hall pumping round after round into classmates and school staff, he will corner you in a small room and either slice your stomach so you can die slowly as your innards spill out on the unsanitary floor or will cut your achilles tendons and watch you squirm helplessly on the unsanitary floor before he punctures your rectum, cuts off your balls, and pulls out your teeth with a rusty pair of pliers.
2006-10-13 17:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋