My son, who's just 20 met a girl 5 months ago. When they met she was already 4 months pregnant Last month they told us that they were going to get married. we thought we handled it quite calmly, pointing out that it might be better to wait until after the baby was born, get a place together, and see how it went from there, bearing in mind that they'd only known each other for such a short time. Our son agreed that that was the sensible thing to do, and began to talk about a summer wedding.
However, they've just told us that they got married a week ago, without telling us. We are very hurt, especially as they spent the weekend with us when we had a celebratory meal and gifts as they were moving into their apartment. My son discussed the wedding plans and the part his younger brother and sister could play in the ceremony, when they were already married. I feel so much pain because of the deciet and lies. What should I do? I don't want to be selfish, but we are so hurt.
2007-02-15
04:30:05
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