Singles & Dating - 26 December 2007

I'll get to the point... I was with this guy it was really late, we kissed and talked for a bout half hour then went to sleep. About 20 mins later we woke up and started fooling around and then ended up having sex. He was in me for about 5 seconds when he lost his erection (which i am completely fine with, not a big deal to me), so after about 2 mins of kissing and stuff I asked him if he wanted to go to bed. I said it in a very polite manner cuz i knew he was exhausted from work. THEN he randomly outta no where responds with: "Well I guess so, since you're just laying there ". ( i was very active on the bottom part btw, so i wasn't just laying there)
MY QUESTION: why did he just lash out at me for no reason??? Was he so embarrased by losing his erection that he tried to put the blame on me??
I would love to hear guys viewpoints on this matter.
We always have a lotta fun and have great sex, I said nothing mean to him and then BAM he just said that and never apologized for sayingit

2007-12-26 17:56:56 · 6 answers · asked by collegegurlumass 1

I just dont feel anything anymore sometimes i think i do but i dont. i dont want to make love, i dont want him to touch me i am very jumpy with him. he has tried to choke me twice and i don't want to get him in trouble i want him to get help. and he has no where to live he has no job and no real family. he has nothing so i hate to have him leave. i don't know what to do anymore i am so lost and confused. he eats all my food leaves me nothing smokes all my cancer sticks, takes whatever i have that he doesn't off of me such as drinks or food or candy anything. sits on my computer all day, uses my phone for whatever he wants, watches porno consistently, tells me to shut up all the time when i try working things out, makes me have sex when i dont want to or dont feel well, oh my goodness the list goes on i just feel so bad for him i don't know what to do.

2007-12-26 17:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been apart since February and she has moved on, and although for the most part I have too, I still love her very deeply. I want to start the new year fresh and I feel that the only way to do that is to let go of the love that I have for her. So how do I do that? Telling her is not an option as I have not spoken to her since July and I don't think it would be healthy for me to anyways.

2007-12-26 17:50:22 · 37 answers · asked by Patrick E 6

2007-12-26 17:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know... you're walking down the street, someone passes, you turn back to look... what is it that makes you do that?

2007-12-26 17:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Pazit. 5

I was a virgin b4 my bf, but we have been together and sexually active for a while. He told me the other night that I was the best he has ever had... could this be true... he has been with other women before. Have you ever been with a relatively inexperienced woman who was great in bed?

2007-12-26 17:31:34 · 28 answers · asked by Missy C 1

What is the sexiest thing about a girl? Is it looks, something she has done for you, or maybe something she has done to you?

2007-12-26 17:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by peacenlove22 1

I believe that people say that they love someone, they don't really mean it. Can you tell the apart?

2007-12-26 17:30:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Usually around this time of the year, he gets emotional because it brings back alot of controversial memories. He asked to go back to the way things were on the 23rd, and I know he really wants an answer soon. I feel bad because this is the first time he's had a nice Christmas since 2001, and I don't want to spoil it because of me not wanting to go out with him. He still loves me, and he's even told me this. But, I don't want to do it again because the last time we went out, he gave it 2 months, and said he didn't like the distance (we live 300+ miles apart) and said it wouldn't work. How would this time be different, I have no clue. He didn't really want to break up in the first place, but he didn't want to have the responsibilty of worrying about me that far away. Plus, the gas money to see me would be astronomical. He's a sweet guy, and he really really cares for me. I really don't want to spoil his holiday, but I want to decline the offer to go out again. Is this even possible?

2007-12-26 17:29:12 · 5 answers · asked by mcrwayperfect 2

I was wondering how to know if my boyfriend is gay... because i recently found naked pictures of asian men on his computer also i found a video of him kissing a guy on youtube... he says it was just for fun but im not sure... is this a sign he is gay? what are some ways i can find out... i ask him all the time and he swears he is not gay..

2007-12-26 17:26:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am of legal age and an older man has taken an interest in me, and I in him. When I say older I mean 12 years older, is that ok? I am sure there will come a point when it will not matter much and sure it's what you make it. I am mature and the guys my age are not up to par, and that is unfortunate for them, and it kind of leaves me in a pickle as well. So older guy? Do or don't?

2007-12-26 17:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Mikey J 1

ok i'm in pain, i have a fractured shoulder and its in the process of healing, my bestfriend wants me to come over and help her shovle her drive way, and i'm well known to just help anyone in need(sounds korny but its true) and she knows i'd do anything for her, my shoulder still hurts but i might be able to do this....should i risk it???

2007-12-26 17:21:25 · 2 answers · asked by spikex02boy 1

What little things make u fall in love with a girl like the way they look at u or like something they always do (like play with their hair or look into ur eyes)
thank u <333

2007-12-26 17:21:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was so bored that I stooped low enough to chat online with a random stranger of the opposite sex. When we traded pics, what a disappointment. I don't usually IM or chat on the Internet but my encounters with men have been sparse lately. Has anyone else experienced this?

2007-12-26 17:13:36 · 11 answers · asked by Fly girl 7

2007-12-26 17:05:58 · 19 answers · asked by l.bask 1

So i worked at Mcdonalds, am 18 and a senior in HS. This gurl I have seen is in 10th grade. idk anything else about her.
She has appeared there whenever i work. i noticed she stares at me when i was working and i think she stares at me at school 2. but i like never talked to her and i don't have her for any of my classes. and idk if she likes me or not...
i think she called me on private call when i was working as she walked out...idk how she got my #...maybe a friend but it doesn't bother me 2 much...that she has my #.
But how would i be able to find out w/o saying anything just basing it off of what i hear and see.
For example she ordered a medium fry which costs $1.69 and after i said 69 she said "ooo sixty nine..." and i just kinda smiled as i got her change.
i wonder are those some signs like staring and that quote that mean she likes me like dat??? idk

2007-12-26 17:04:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

"in the last half hour i've found out more about you than I know about my best friend" and later "thats a good thing" on msn?!?!

2007-12-26 17:02:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried the clubs , nothing but crazies did I meet, tried wal mart and grocery stores and several festivals to no avail. any suggestions from the older crowd?

2007-12-26 17:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by Terry K 2

hi, got a big question... i have a very close guy fren... he have deleted e email that i email to him (which express how bad i was hurt) but he save the other girl email which express her feelings for him....wat does it means... iznt he had accept the girl love and dun want me any more..... please help

2007-12-26 16:59:42 · 1 answers · asked by junior 1

we havent seen eachother in 5 years and he found me over myspace and we been talking for three days now... well we talk about hanging out and stuff Maybe get together... this morning at 6AM he messages me over myspace and says good morning I hope u have a great day.. he asked me to go to a new years party with him and then hang out that following saturday.. were always talking.. so whats the chances?

2007-12-26 16:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes from IL Chicago and am from manila we just saw each other in web cam,he told me he's in love with me and im love with him too,but we are both studying and he wants me to go there in IL,but i dont want to give up my school life here.what will i i do pls help decide.

2007-12-26 16:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by hershey 1

Basically, I'm the type of person that you love to talk to. Whenever someone i know is going through a rough situation they turn to me because i'm extremly logical and i give good advice (not to toot my own horn). On top of it, i'm just an overall very comforting person to talk to. What i don't understand is i help people almost everyday with there realtionship issues inclduing family, romantic, and social but, i haven't been able to really talk to someone about my issues in about 4 years. I don't date, and i'm unsocial. i don't purposely do this i just dont find anything fun anymore. I've been told i'm fun and attrative but i don't feel that way anymore. I just think its wierd that everyone comes to me with there issues and i can't even deal with my own issues.

** sorry if theres any spelling or grammar errors.

2007-12-26 16:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by mandyy 4

Here's what I mean. When I visited France, the men met my eyes. When I walked past, they smiled, they were appreciative. They said flattering things, one even kissed my hand. but it was not threating, they meant nothing by it more than just showing that they were men and I was a woman. but in the U.S. and Britain, men have been trained that it is proper to look at the ground, and ogle a woman only when she has gone past and can't see it. Well, we are dressing and grooming ourselves to look nice, but it feels so unsatisfying to go shopping and never feel as if one has even been noticed! to feel more or less invisible. I am just saying, I never even thought of it before I travelled, and now I vote for the French way. It is so much more encouraging and friendly, and leaves you feeling beautiful, sexy, appreciated, not unnattractive and ignored.

What I really want to know is what is going through your minds, why you look away like that?

2007-12-26 16:48:26 · 13 answers · asked by heaven eyes 2

help me plzz

2007-12-26 16:33:00 · 3 answers · asked by mrz.emoskatergurl 1

Im better then him, But Yet I would love to go out with him I love talking to him, Im only 18 and hes 28 But I dont care, Hes nothing like me, Im a good person, so is he, but he has issues, When I was 10 and he was 20 He use to throw me over his shoulder and spin me around until I almost got sick, He ran with a bad crowd and his parents never cared enough to stop him or tried to talk to him about it, He Always played with me When no one else would, He had the police called on him all the time for knife fighting, But I still Cant stop thinking about him.. we've been talking over myspace for 3 days now.. and I just wanna be with him.. My problem is... My mom doesnt apporve of him.. I dunno what to do... All im doing is hurting.. help me.. I know hes changed

2007-12-26 16:23:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a man for 3 months now. We've made a lot of progress and he's always made his feelings clear. He told me a month ago that he is madly in love with me and that I'm his kind of perfect. He has always sent really sweet text messages after we'd part ways about how I made him crazy and how he wanted to plan a future with me. Suddenly, his life has gotten hectic and is full of stress and things that are troubling him. The text messages are few and there hasn't been much said that is sweet like it used to be. Emails take longer to be answered and we don't see each other quite as often. The last time we were together he said how much he'd missed me... but I'm still hesitant and wondering if anything has changed. Is it safe to assume that this is quite normal and will pass when the stress does? Or is he having second thoughts and not sure how to address me? He's closer to 40 and I didn't think he'd be keen on game playing, so perhaps it really is just a rough patch?

2007-12-26 16:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by chevygirl 1

2007-12-26 16:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by jewlsionzuriel777 3

Do you think it's sexy for a guy to be "bi" ? Would you date a guy if he has had bi-sexual relations in the past??

2007-12-26 16:03:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is 13 years old. She has a boyfriend who is the same age as her. They went on a date. When they got to my friend's house, she wanted to practice sex with him. So her boyfriend decided to put his finger inside the vagina. When her boyfriend put his finger in her vagina, she felt a lot of pain. He did that for about 20 minutes. Her boyfriend thought that her period might be coming because she felt pain. Her period was suppose to come on December 20th, but it never came and today is December 27th. Please help her!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-26 15:56:25 · 8 answers · asked by Sarai A 2

I met this incredible guy two years ago. At first he showed the signs that he likes me then i started to like him too. secretly of cource i am waiting for him to tell me first. this kind of relationship had been going on for a year and then we even had a class together and i thought this year he will tell me because we become closer together seeing him everyday for twoo hours in class. but as the semester progresses he is slowly showing no signs of affection to me.instead i witnessed him getting closer to a girl in our class. they are always happy when i see them. this hurts the most really. i feel like he likes me a lot but why did not tell me all these years i have been waiting and all my hopes are crushed. after three years i saw them still together on the mall i thought to myself that could have been me. it really hurts to see it because i regret myself not telling him that i know he likes me and that i like him twoo

2007-12-26 15:54:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous