2007-12-26 17:05:58 · 19 answers · asked by l.bask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"This isn't working. I can't handle this distance."
If he's okay about it, hes cheating. If hes not, he'll try harder.
2007-12-26 17:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the person and ask them if they are cheating and for them to be completely honest. Because you are not going to be in a relationship based on a lie, especially if its a long distance thing. If he says he's cheating, move on, and let him know it's over! Hope you make the right decision based on your confrontation. Good luck.
2007-12-26 17:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by *lalalala* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long diatance and in eprson, it makes no difference except we dont get to see or feel the other party.
keep it the same and simple and get the truth thru. distance relationship would be easier as we dont get to see them in eprson and behind the security of the screen? but mind you, the respect is still warranted?
"feeling"...cheated? get the facts right and regret your decision. its still all pure emotions here!
speak it out and try to solve the "misunderstanding"?
2007-12-27 00:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by constructor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to break with the person because you "feel" they are cheating. Ask the person, confirm your suspicion.
Then just TELL them...its over; give your reasoning and you're done. if you were close, call them and tell the person. Its up to you if you want to remain friends or not.
2007-12-26 19:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Betsy Boop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that a relationship is based on trust, and you don't feel like you can trust them. SO you think that it is best if you stay friends, because you dont' want to stay up at night wondering who he is laying next to!
2007-12-26 17:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is always best to tell them the truth. If you think that he/she is cheating then tell him that. No need to make up other excuses. It just makes things complicated. And lying is just plain wrong. Especially to the one you care about.
2007-12-26 17:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by DiCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. You aren't in much of a relationship if you don't see them. Just tell them your wanting to see people that are around you more often.
2007-12-26 17:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can tell the person how you asked us here for advice, because that is how very unsure you are about your relationship.
2007-12-26 17:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to break up with them based on a hunch. But hey do whatever you want.
2007-12-26 17:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you think you should see other people and don't think this will work out and just ask to be friends.. but don't mention the cheating thing
2007-12-26 17:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy don't talk to them. they're far away. but i mean talk to him about it. or just be like. uhm i realy don't think this realationship is right. long distance relationships have lots of elements and i don't think i can withstand them. i'm sry.
2007-12-26 17:07:39 · answer #11 · answered by Fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋