hes from IL Chicago and am from manila we just saw each other in web cam,he told me he's in love with me and im love with him too,but we are both studying and he wants me to go there in IL,but i dont want to give up my school life here.what will i i do pls help decide.
2007-12-26 16:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by hershey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what could happend: you travel, he rapes you, then he report you to inmigration services, the girl from Manila is arrested and deported...Happy Ending (FOR HIM)
Don't you see? that's why he wants you to travel, He knows that in USA you are just an inmigrant without family and friends to protect you, and that you can be arrested and deported just by dialing the phone.
There is not such a thing as "Internet Love". Don't be so naive.
Listen to me: He is just a PERVERT; Any one can be fun and romantic over the internet, even psychos; Don't you find weird that he doesn't have a girl in his hometown? Why he doesn't want to move to Manila? If he loves yopu that much WHY are you having to move and risk everything?
Ask him to move to your town, get a job, study over there, meet your parents and date you like any normal guy. You'll see how fast he finds some lame escuse to say no.
Forget about him, he just want his personal "mail bride" to abuse.
2007-12-26 17:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its doesnt matter where he is from. Never hook up with people in chat rooms. NEVER. There have been millions of cases where the girl finds a man on the chat room, and then they meet, and the man kills, or rapes her. Do not even think about this. Don't give him personal information, and don't talk to him again.
2007-12-26 17:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Special Sushi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi well heres my best answer for ya:) it seems like he wants to see u but u dont wanna give up the stuff u have at school try this if u want u can eithers- 1 try talkin him out of t till u are ready 2 u might can talk or tell him into waiting till ur life at school is done or 3 u2 can wrk somthin out to see each other in persion if both ready for maby weekends or 1ce a month or somthin like that i really hope this helps:)
2007-12-26 17:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by starman69881 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you both need to decide where your priorities lie ---- why not finish schooling then decide where you both want to live ---- visit each other and see where you both will be most comfortable --- if the guy is not prepared to make the first move ie visit you -- then you must be a bit wary of his motives ---- i have thought all of this out carefully as my lady is half a world away and i will be seeing her face to face soon --- i will be visiting her ---- best wishes
2007-12-26 17:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get married online if you cant see each other. its in all the new magazines and alot of people do it. try searching online for a legitmate web cam style wedding.
Good Luck!
2007-12-26 16:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by love always 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep in touch with him to see if your relationship will continue.
tell him you can't meet him now or ask him to come to you,
and be careful. good luck.
2007-12-26 17:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.Right 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋