Here's what I mean. When I visited France, the men met my eyes. When I walked past, they smiled, they were appreciative. They said flattering things, one even kissed my hand. but it was not threating, they meant nothing by it more than just showing that they were men and I was a woman. but in the U.S. and Britain, men have been trained that it is proper to look at the ground, and ogle a woman only when she has gone past and can't see it. Well, we are dressing and grooming ourselves to look nice, but it feels so unsatisfying to go shopping and never feel as if one has even been noticed! to feel more or less invisible. I am just saying, I never even thought of it before I travelled, and now I vote for the French way. It is so much more encouraging and friendly, and leaves you feeling beautiful, sexy, appreciated, not unnattractive and ignored.
What I really want to know is what is going through your minds, why you look away like that?
2007-12-26 16:48:26 · 13 answers · asked by heaven eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have your lovely womans liberation femanists to thank for that. they complain that all guys do is stare at them and their chest and butts. They complain and raise hissy fits about the comments guys make to them. They sue employers and have coworkers fired for expressing their attraction to them in the work place. The US has been trying to work the man out of men for the past 30-40 years now.
The quick answer to your question is because society is now telling us it's NOT okay to act that way anymore.
2007-12-26 17:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of problems with being a guy in the US. There is just as much pressure on guys here as there is girls and all we do is make each other uncomfortable. I grew up shy and expecting pretty women to reject me and so when I see one I get shy and bashful and embarassed. It is something I am still getting over but the first reaction is still to turn red......Nothing you do other than looking hot makes me think that so please dont take guys looking away as bad. Just that we are immature and bashful....
2007-12-26 16:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called differences in culture darlin
The french also eat every animal known to man and are cheese eating surrender monkeys
if you dont like it where you are you can always emigrate
lol i love how women complain about guys being hard to read. it's like paris hilton calling lindsay lohan a talentless media whore
next youll be complaining that guys leer at you. honestly, you women need to work out what you want, cos it seems you change your mind like the weather
2007-12-26 16:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 05:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAimple answer,Different people ,different way to think, live& behave. U seen such type of thing in all around the world & all country too
2007-12-26 18:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because I don't want to cause offence, anyway it is rude to stare. But if I see a pretty girl, I quickly recognise that she is attractive, but because I am shy I don't do anything about it except on line.
2007-12-26 23:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what your saying is they shouldnt try to be so strict , because then they probaby wouldnt act so crude at times. I personally do not like to be stared at though.
2007-12-26 17:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hear this from so many girls. "I was in France and guys hit on meee soooo much, theyre sooo nice, how come guys here can't do the same?"
Gee wonder why...
2007-12-26 16:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by slayer_gurl888 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what i wounder the same thing its nerve recking for me b/c i liked this one boy SOOOOOOOO much but everytime i'd ever catch his eye.....HE'D LOOK DOWN OR SOME WHERE ELSE!!....i thought he didnt like me i liked him for almost a year but i was sick of him not talking to me..i mean i talk to him one time even then he didnt speak he smiled though.....but i was too scaried to talk to him he was i guess to shy to talk to me so i stoped liking him.....I WANNA MOVE TO FRANCE.....!!! it sounds so nice lol....a girl need that kind of attention
2007-12-26 17:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♦sweetest mamita♦ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i think o my god she is ugly. sometimes i think o she is lovely, i could just shg that. then when they go past i look at them and think nice. that's me anyway. but if i like a girl i can be quit forward, surprising for me. +++++++++++++++++++++
2007-12-26 17:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by mr perfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋