I was in a relationship about 10 yrs ago and the guy nearly killed me. I was beat up pretty bad, thrown thru a door, lost 1 front tooth and have a scar next to my nose from being punched in the face. I had some serious injuries, a brain concussion, stitches in my face and lost some hearing in my r ear for awhile.
My boyfriend asked me about it which means to me someone has discussed it with him. I do not want to discuss it, so I lied and said it never happened.
Its very personal, and I am not sure I should discuss my past with someone unless I know they are forever my partner for life. I think he crossed a boundary and I know he tells his adult kids my personal business, so I dont tell him anything I dont want spread all over the town.
How do I deal with this? I am not sure if I am being paranoid because I think he wants to know my business to have something to talk about with his adult kids.
2007-12-19
16:06:58
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happydawg
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