Im 20. Ive been dating a girl (also 20) for almost 3 months. 2 months ago she told me she wants a relationship eventually with me but she wants to move very slow. She said she gets scared of relationships and it is hard for her to open up because she has been hurt badly in the past. Things have been going good since then but she hasnt said anything else about getting more serious. We are leaving tomorrow for a three week Christmas break (we live in different states and wont get to see each other.) How can I know that she will still see me after the break and wont just come back with a new bf??
2007-12-19 16:06:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know maybe you just have to trust that her emotions are right. maybe shes one of those that believe that things that are ment be fall into place on their own. and hey, absence makes the heart grow fonder, so maybe she'll miss you over the break and realize that she really wants to try her hand at a serious relationship with you.
2007-12-19 16:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get over worry about this. Continue to care for her during the holiday, send her some sweet text or ever order something special for her during the holiday. Don't push her, just be nice and tender and care for her because you love her.
2007-12-20 00:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by SASA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋