Singles & Dating - 19 December 2007

Okay for guys its pretty obvious that we check out your breats and butts. But what about you what do you check out when you look at a guy?

2007-12-19 19:29:17 · 24 answers · asked by Adeptus Astartes 5

Hey there,
This guy I have been dating for 6months( only 1 exclusive) cheated on me with his ex he claims he has no feelings for and I found out. He says he was going to tell me and that he felt like crap &realized after he did it how much he liked me (this is weird;don't get it but both girls & guys have said this happened to them before) and that he wants to be with me and thinks we can get through this. I asked him why he did it and he said he thinks because it was his way of rebeling against the things about him I was asking him to improve on, but takes responsibility and said it was bad judgement.
I told him I am going to need him to give me time to trust him again and be super-accountable for a while(phone-calls, telling me where he's at, etc) until I can trust him again.
I want to know if its possible or if any guys out there have gone through a similiar situation where they cheated once and never did it again and it made them realize how much they liked there gf?

2007-12-19 19:27:26 · 24 answers · asked by Allison J 1

So there is this guy I like. I know he is going to ask me out today, he as good as told me he was going to. I don’t wanna just say “yeah” or something lame. What is a good way to say yes? What should I wear and do my hair? Should I be aware of anything? Do anything?

THANKS IN ADVANCE

just so you know,... today we have finals and it is the last day of school before winter break. idk if that matters.

2007-12-19 19:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well.. .they are just childlish crushes, one is in my school, same class, the other is in a secondery school that i'll be going next year. I like the guy in the secondery school more (just call him guy 1). but i rarely see him, so i kinda like the guy in my school... (guy 2)
but i told my big mouth friends i like guy2's other friend, because i used to like him and he knows that. but i think it's wrong for me to like another guy at the same time, (GOD THIS IS GETTING CONFUSING RIGHT?)



oK.. just get this staight...

GUY 1 is the guy I like the most, yet I used to like GUY 2, but i feel guilty about it, even though i was never like, commited to either of them. (lol) some GUY 2 found out (but i stopped liking him 1 yr ago so i am still WAY ahead of him) anyway, i now like him again, but i know that this is stupid, because i have A LITTLE feelings for his always funny friend.



TY, ALL I NEED IS SOME TIP[SOF WHAT IS SHOULD DO...

2007-12-19 19:25:37 · 4 answers · asked by Amy 6

This is based off our first encounter only, i have met her once as she is the new girl at our shop, so this is why i ask...

She will look deep into my eyes when we talk. She will not move away or budge when i got really close to her (like into her personal space). I complemented her quite lamely on her nametag in which she responded way too nicely to. She constantly said sorry for things that did not require her to do so (such as opening a draw near me). When she was told to tell me something she seemed overly nice to me and kind. A few subtle stares and smiles.

Btw she is not sucking up to me because i am neither her manager or superior, i am 18 and a new worker also, we work in retail :)

I went in again that same afternoon with my friend to buy a present for sum1, and i did myself up nicely so i looked good. I caught her staring at me from the corner of my eye for long periods when she thought i was busy rummaging through gifts.

Can a girl be attracted from only 1 session?

2007-12-19 19:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

On meeting somebody from the opposite sex for the first time as if you have known him/her for ages and strange chemistry working out between you both?

2007-12-19 19:03:36 · 4 answers · asked by Franc 3

Im an 19 yr old male, and (for lack of a better term) im "depressed". I got a great job, and but i almost hate going to it. Im not stupid, but i just failed most of my college classes, and i just cant seem to date anyone. The only thing i care about is dating someone it seems. its all i think about and no matter what i do it seems that everything is futile. I havent had any positive things happen to me as far as dating and i just want to date someoen to have a good time. I tell myself that if i was dating someone i would be having a better time or id enjoy wokring or going to class, becasue id have a reason to go. I think i just want someone to care for and care for me other than my family, but most of my friends think im depressed. I dont think i am because i def. am not suicidal or anti social . I will say that it causes me to say things that i normally wouldnt. Am I just stuck in a rut or am i depressed?

2007-12-19 18:52:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl who I really, really like. A lot. But she would call me 'buddy' all the time and I wasn't sure what meant. Well I asked a question here and most people said to ask her. So I did. I said "Is there any particular reason you call me buddy?" and she said "lol well you're my buddy is that bad?" and then I said "no I just thought maybe that means you think I'm just friends-only material or maybe it's just a fun nickname..." and she hasn't said anything for 2 days. What does it mean? And what do I say to get her to talk to me? I just want the honest truth about what she thinks of me. I tried just saying hey yesteday but I didn't get a reply.

Help, I want to know if she likes me back or not. I can't stand to just be her friend.

2007-12-19 18:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19yrs old, 5' 5'' 130lbs. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v39/kittykatchops/newpic.jpg this is what i look like.

first off im not writing this for sympathy or to be called stupid. trust me i know.
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I've had enough. Ive said this time and time again, but now I really mean it. I've been with Justin for a year and a half. Hes cheated on me Twice(that i know of) and last weekend he beat me for the first time. I know that Im not a bad gf. Yeah Im jealous because hes cheated on me and but look at how pathetic I am for taking him back twice! And HE still calls ME names! Like I've done something wrong.

He got kicked out of the AirForce and I've let him stay with me for the past few weeks. Letting him eat my food, sleep in my bed, get on my computer, watch my TV, wash in my shower all for FREE.

I left to work today around 2pm. while on break i called justin around 6pm. he said he was at a friends house playing video games. I later called him at 10:30pm

2007-12-19 18:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by nicoℓe 4

2007-12-19 18:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 and i have a boyfriend. we like eachother alot, and he has brought up the next subject...but i dont know if im ready, and i dont know if im not ready....

2007-12-19 18:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by california_gurl 2

Alright here it goes. Shy, quiet guy. Loud mouth girl with a shy side. All boy would do is shyly smile at her and turn away and/or put his head down. Both play the staring and quickly turn away game. Girl finally sits down and chats with him recently, he quotes everything off her facebook profile. Boy finally comes out of his shell with girl and begins to goof around and laugh with her, gabs with her every chance he gets. Questions her about everything about herself..Boy acts totally different with her than others..yadda yadda...

Girl is highly attracted to boy and wants to make a move, but doesn't know how, doesn't want to scare him off, doesn't know how he feels. Doesn't want to fudge it up....

Some say snatch him. Others are saying give it some time, it's new, learn more about each other, he may be in the same boat.

So, girl comes to strangers looking for advice on the situation, what she should do and how...

thanx.

2007-12-19 18:28:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy that i really like but him and this girl just broke up after a on and off again relationship of two years. he always flirts with me i think he does anyways and i have liked him for about a year now, i dont know if i should just tell him how i feel or just wait for a month or two.

2007-12-19 18:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So theres this girl, not like any other girl, but a very beautiful girl and very polite so it seems from the outside. Anyways, we both went to school together and I graduated a year earlier then she did, well one day I had to go in to get my graduation stuff and find out what was what, and on the way out the girl I like was sitting on the bench and I was getting ready to head out the door she ran in front of it and stopped me and asked where I was going I said home she said I dont want you to go or I will miss you I said please move without thinking so she did. Ok so we talked online for awhile, I told her she could come to my graduation so she did,Now fast forward 2 year later she has a boyfriend, Everytime I go into the store she works at she always looks at me and smiles, but this time I was looking at magizines and she came to the aile and acted like she was messing with a rack, so I moved to next aile and she came to the next aile and smiled at me, I said hi to her but no response

2007-12-19 18:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by ssss 1

get back together w/ your ex?
heres the story:
about a year ago me n my exbroke up
we went out for 6 months
i have not been able to get over it and i dont know if he has either
there are many signs that he still likes me but i dont know
do you think i should start talking to him more?
try and show him i like him?
cause a while ago there was a rumor startedabout me that i was gonna sk him out just to be mean to play arounf but didnt really like him
so even if he liked me before
i just dont know
advice?

2007-12-19 18:26:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 15, and my ex has asked me to love him again, but i can't trust him as i found my friend and him snoggong in my room as i left them to get some popcorn....and he says that if i dont become his gf again he would commit suicide and blame it all on me.. what should i do?

2007-12-19 18:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by cutebabe 1

people go on asking - why do u luv me?what do u like in me?is luv dependant on these questions?does these questions really need to b answered?

2007-12-19 18:23:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell me if it happened to you

2007-12-19 18:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by baby O 3

He grabbed around my waist he would make kissy faces and all that he would always make me blush he would tickle me jump out at me on my midnight walks and one night I was hanging out with my horse sitting on the fence petting him and he came up behind me picked me up and brought me in the house he sat me on the couch and watched king kong he whispered to me cause another one of our frineds was at the comp and is a blabber mouth he asked if I wanted to holdhis hands we held hands then he layed down still holding my hand on his chest and he kissed my hand

Now he is dating someone else but he still looks at me and all that trying to hug me and all but thats not the point I wasnt physically ready for him

Did he like me?

2007-12-19 18:21:20 · 4 answers · asked by Tennessee GUrl 2

its my birthday tomorrow and i havent made any plans but i have mentioned that its coming to my boyfriend and was hoping i could at least just spend the day with him. i guess im a hopeless romantic but i was hoping he could plan something.. but.. i guess he didnt even plan on spending the day with me because he just told me that he has to study to a final he has the next day... and thats understandable but he had the choice of taking the final one day later... meaning he wouldnt have to study on my birthday... i didnt act like i cared or that it mattered.. but im kinda disappointed.. i guess birthdays are usually disappointing .. i probably shouldnt have expected anything cause we didnt talk about it?...

2007-12-19 18:16:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's my only girlfriend and we've been together for 5 years but last christmas she left me but we still have communication. then a month later she told me she slept with a guy (she lost her virginity to a different guy she hardly knew!) and the guy never talked to her again. then i took her back but i've been pretty mad about it and i still hate her but i also know that i love her. i can't stop thinking about it even though she says she'l be loyal and all that. i still can't get over what she did eve though we're back together for 7 months now. should i give her a second chance? should i trust her? she did it only once. we've been in long distance relationship for 3 years. she's going to take me away after i graduate from college ( i have 2 more months of college to go) and i really want to get out of here. we've been together since we were 16.

2007-12-19 18:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by King Kong Jr. 3

There is this guy I've liked for awhile, and I really think he liked me back. He changed schools and now I never see him, and I never got the chance to tell him how I felt. Do you think I should try to see him again and tell him I feel about him, or just forget and move on?

2007-12-19 18:14:38 · 1 answers · asked by Pansy 2

She's my only girlfriend and we've been together for 5 years but last christmas she left me but we still have communication. then a month later she told me she slept with a guy (she lost her virginity to a different guy she hardly knew!) and the guy never talked to her again. then i took her back but i've been pretty mad about it and i still hate her but i also know that i love her. should i give her a second chance? we've been in long distance relationship for 3 years. she's going to take me away after i graduate from college and i really want to get out of here. we've been together since we were 16.

2007-12-19 18:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by King Kong Jr. 3

i want to remove this person from my msn and i dont want to be in her msn eihter, so would i be removed if i delete her from my list ? i dont want to ignore her cuz she may want to talk to me sometimes later but for now i dont want her to see me online...but again i dont want to ignore her....POSSIBLE ???
thanks

2007-12-19 18:08:59 · 6 answers · asked by Ali 4

Okay so here's the deal...Im 22/m and never had a girl, im not a virgin thank god, but it still sucks alot that I cannot communicate with anyone of the opposite sex correctly. I mean i'm not bad looking in the face, im 6'6 150lbs, so I feel like the jolly green giant but also like a wet noodle, lol! I can laugh about that but really it was traumatizing growing p, and still is sometimes. Please dont say work out, I get that all the time, I do workout and I eat so much but again and again the same story.

I am actually a little nervous because I just had a panick attack and my heart almost stopped, this is all do to my lonliness. My heart is not good because I feel the need for companionship but can't do nothing about it. I feel like i'm not human and that people dont see me as human but just a giant beanpole who is fun to ask "Oh my god how tall are you?"

I am incredibly smart, I can be very sociable but at the same time I avoid people by pulling out some of my famous lies.

2007-12-19 18:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by OhG..AnotherWay 1

She say's "i find it offensive that ugly guys like me. it's like saying that i'm ugly. I'm only flattered and praised when cute guys like me. Because my look should only attract cute guys not ugly guys"

she said that right in front of my face in front of everybody!!!!!!!

What the hell. DO most girl think this way???

2007-12-19 18:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a good person and all . and i met guys everywhere i go even when i think im looking my worse but i cant seem to find a guy who's not looking for just sex. Dont get me wrong i like sex too, but i want a real relationship. Not a relationship based on only sex. So here's my questions what makes than think im only good for that? =(

here's a pix of me
http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f363/mely13/matureofwhat.jpg

2007-12-19 18:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if a guy holds the door open for you, defends you, other people tell you he stares at you but you dont know it, jokes around with you does all this mean he likes you? The guy says he doesnt like me that way but my friend says that he would go out with me and even his mom said he likes me. My aunt has saw him stare at me when i didnt know it. He defended me against two girls that were bringing nonsense.

2007-12-19 18:01:27 · 15 answers · asked by shortyT 1

Was it wrong of me to slap my boyfriend in the face after he called me a dumb slut and a stupid b*tch in front of a whole bunch of people?
I'm still kind of in a daze right now because of what happpened, but basically, we were outside of a club when we started to fight. I didn't call him any names or swear, I tried to keep it down actually, because I didn't want a crowd coming around us, you know? But then he said all those things to me, so I couldn't control myself.

I feel bad about it.. but I think he deserved it. Plus, he actually lunged at me like he was going to hit me, except that people held him back.

Was I wrong?

2007-12-19 17:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by Ruby L 1

We have been going out for almost a year now and I have told him that I love him, but he said that he was scared to tell me "those words" I stoped saying it so he can feel like he "was ready" but I told him again and he just shows it to me but can not tell me, im am wondering if i am just wasting my time or will he ever love me because I am sick of waiting. What do I do he is 31 years old and I feel that he should no if he loves me or not by now... right? should i just keep waiting or move on ...?

2007-12-19 17:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous