We have been going out for almost a year now and I have told him that I love him, but he said that he was scared to tell me "those words" I stoped saying it so he can feel like he "was ready" but I told him again and he just shows it to me but can not tell me, im am wondering if i am just wasting my time or will he ever love me because I am sick of waiting. What do I do he is 31 years old and I feel that he should no if he loves me or not by now... right? should i just keep waiting or move on ...?
2007-12-19 17:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Showing it is actually better than saying it. Maybe he's superstitious or something. You have to go with the feeling you get from him. After all, some people can say the words but don't really show it or mean it, at least he shows it.
2007-12-19 18:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you. For me, if they really show that they love, then what does it matter whether they can say it? Sure, it is better if they can show and say it, but still. Showing it is the most important part of it.
Of course not being able to say it...I wonder if he is just not ready to say it (even though he shows it), or is waiting for the best time to say it.
2007-12-20 02:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 3'1 so he's prolly been in plenty of bad relationships where "I love u's" were exchanged a lil too quickly and he doesn't want that to happen in this one. He prolly does love u, he just doesn't wanna say it cuz he's afraid things will change.
2007-12-20 02:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably had problems with it in the past. he doesnt need to say "i love you" just ask him "do you love me" and let him aanswer yes or no.
words are used to express, not the actual expression.
2007-12-20 02:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jinxxed 0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get out. He obviously doesn't love you or he would say he does.
move on down, move on down, move on down the ro-ad.
2007-12-20 01:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing you guys **** a lot and he might be bored you yours.
2007-12-20 01:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋