Im a good person and all . and i met guys everywhere i go even when i think im looking my worse but i cant seem to find a guy who's not looking for just sex. Dont get me wrong i like sex too, but i want a real relationship. Not a relationship based on only sex. So here's my questions what makes than think im only good for that? =(
here's a pix of me
http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f363/mely13/matureofwhat.jpg
2007-12-19 18:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see im not the clubbin type. Ive been to clubs like 5 times this year and i got to be dragged into them. I rather catch a movie or chill some where at a friend's house or something and i dress casual. like a normal female. nothing slutty or sleezy, Im easy to get along with. but i seem to attract the ones who only want to have sex.
2007-12-19 18:28:04 · update #1
HI....first of all, i wanna tell u that ur not doin anything wrong. The thing ur looking for, is not in our control, i mean to say that , real love just happens, we can never force it to happen nor stop it forcibly to happen, so just relax, because for everyone in the world there is someone. And for u definetly someone will be there , u have to just wait and i saw ur pics...u are gudlooking gal....u will soon find ur real luv.
Gud luck and be happy
2007-12-19 18:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by vikas n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not allow yourself to take responsibility for the shortcoming of others. If they're only looking for sex then that's their problem, you can't allow youself to accept responsibility for their thoughts and actions. I mean it's different if you're walking around wearing a shirt that says "*** dumpster" or dressing inappropriately or something.
You're probably not doing anything wrong, this is why I'm not into the club scene. When guys pick up girls based on a look or a 2 min window or in a noisey drunken club, more likely than not, it's going to be based on sexual attraction. You're much better off finding guys through friends, inclasses or church, at coffee shops... anywhere you can actually get to know the guy. If the guy is only after sex, chances are he wont take the few days/weeks it takes to get to know you.
2007-12-20 02:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. You look like the person who would get a fair amount of both sides (to just use as a tool or for real relationship).
I am guessing that you just need to look around more. It is very interesting that you cannot find a guy who wants a real relationship.
2007-12-20 02:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you presenting yourself in a sexual manner?
Just to let you know Men think about SEX every 30-60 seconds ALL DAY LONG...men were created to find a mate and procreate....all men (as long as they are straight)..are going to look at a woman FIRST for her sexual appeal...so I'm guessing that you must be REALLY HOT..it's OK some of us are just GENETICALY BLESSED>>>>keep looking for a guy who doesn't want to have sex right away..eventually you will have sex with this person; but it will be based on something more than physical attration........then think LONG TERM>>>>>
2007-12-20 02:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just havent been searching for guys that are really intellectuals, you have been going out with the wrong types of guys who wouldnt really take you seriously, you are dating losers, go somewhere else , find guys who actually read books and know about women studies.
2007-12-20 02:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look like you drew you shaved your eyebrows off and drew them in with a sharpie.
tehe.
2007-12-20 02:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not very interesting?
2007-12-20 02:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your eyebrows.
2007-12-20 02:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋