Singles & Dating - 19 December 2007

Im pretty popular i know all the girls and guys in my school. I just got my glasses and ppl call me harry potter so i guess i kinda look like him but i think i look way better without them

2007-12-19 08:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's not exactly a contious choice...but i've come to admit that i'm extremly attracted to men that are specifically unkind to me. if i work with a male and we constanly but heads, there is a good chance i've contimplated taking him to the back room and straddling him up against the office desk. nice guys on the other hands...i want to like them...but the attraction isn't there. i know it's unfair...these are the guys that deserve my approval. i'm not sure if this irrational attraction to jerks was generated by some deep rooted issues i had with my crazy brother or first boyfriend who was pretty mean...or if it's as simple as...thats just what floats my boat. i would like to change this preference. are there any girls who WERE this way and changed. PLEASE no insults...i'm not proud of this behavior, i want advise on how to change.

2007-12-19 08:51:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

why can a guy move on so quickly but girls are stuck miserable and in pain from the break up?

2007-12-19 08:50:10 · 19 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4

No, dont think im going to do this because I just wouldnt, but I went out with the girls last night and it was a topic we discussed. I just wondered what everyone else thinks?

2007-12-19 08:47:45 · 23 answers · asked by lillibut 4

Last year, I was painfully shy with guys. This year, I have heard from two guys that I don't shut up! However, I talk a lot to avoid awkward silences which I am terrified of. How can I find a happy medium between being shy / over-talkative, while making the guy I'm talking to happy, too?

2007-12-19 08:47:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi guys
I just wanted 2know what white guys think of dating black girls.

I'm a black female and fancy this white guy but I dont think or know if he goes 4 black girls. We get on a well and flirt around

I've seen his ex were white they were slim & sexy, one was blonde and other brunette compare 2me. i'm darkskin like ebony colour, curvey (not fat) just 2give an image flat tummy big bust and a bum, sweet smile and i've been told i have sexy yet mysterious eyes long brown hair
please dont think i'm big headed I just want you to know what i'm on about

I havent had the courage to give him hints that I like him in case I feel a fool

being black I feel maybe us black females could be to much of a hassle, turn off, maybe to much junk in the tunk or not what you would go for.

i know there are interracial couples but i've only dated black men so dont know how to get with other men.

no rude comments and please dont take it in a rude way people thanks in advance

2007-12-19 08:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by worried 2

hi looking 4advice, been wif my boyfriend for 5 yrs, but things have gone stale, we arent intimate hardly even kiss, we're not overly stressd out or anything although we've had a fair share of problems, we share a bed but its purely for sleeping has been like that 4ever. if he said i dont feel 'that way' about you i would be a bit relieved i think&i may be able to move on, but i feel like he's my other half of me, i think it would be really strange without him. i sometmes dream of having someone better, someone i can be intimate with, someone who treats me better. i constantly seem to be doing nice things for him yet i cant remember the last time he did something nice for me. but it scares me that if i leave ill have no-one i dont have pals everyone's moved on i dont want to end up alone & he's my only serious relationship so ive nothing to compare it 2 (im 26) i convince myself our relationship is good, he's a decent enough guy hang on2 him, even though its not 100% i couldnt end it.

2007-12-19 08:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by donut 1

There was this guy that I used to hang around with and we got pretty close, and we liked each other but he was sort of a distant type..wouldnt express his feelings properly and wasnt open..so we never talked abt getinn serious..But i REALLY liked him..but he moved out of state and after that we decreased our contact..i felt soo depressed..then i met another guy and I liked him..and as of now I am engaged to him and gona b married next year..I really do like this new guy and I talk everyday to him.. but I still cannot forget the old guy for some reason..all memories come back to me and I just miss him..but he acts as if he dusnt care and dusnt try to realy talk to me much and all like wen we r both Online..but I m sitting here like an idiot feeling depressed over him wen I have a Gem of a guy as a fiance..What shud I do? How can I forget this Guy and get him off MY MIND!! i need to forget him b4 my marriage.. Im going crazy everyday PLease tell me...what can i doo?

2007-12-19 08:42:07 · 11 answers · asked by shachi r 1

yes was looking through my mans fone. found number under 'ramo' rang it was a girl who lives in same city. she works in central in m&s. she said she didnt know who my man was, never heard of him, hasnt given her number to neone of my mans description. but how has he got her number on his fone. her name is rachel so that explains the name it was under, and he obviously knew her name. she says its nothing to worry about and maybe it was one of her mates making a joke, about wat i dont know? wat does ne one else reckon. i dont want to jump to conclusion but its all a bit strange. i dont want to ask him cuz he will just argue.

2007-12-19 08:30:11 · 4 answers · asked by JESSICA H 1

im in love with one of my best friends. that never works out does it? Ive been sleeping with him for like a year now. and we hang out like friends. but now i notice im getting super attached and he remains the same. what do i do?
oh..p.s. he's waaaay younger than me.

2007-12-19 08:29:40 · 7 answers · asked by k 2

2007-12-19 08:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by bria422000 2

how can i write answer in my question here

2007-12-19 08:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom gave birth .. .. .. to my baby brother ..

and she called him .. SULTAN ..

what do u think we should call him ?? for short ..

TAN ,, OR TONY .. and why ?? plz answer ..

2007-12-19 08:21:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Feel free to share your story. Serious answers only, thx in advance!!!!

2007-12-19 08:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by AWomanScorned 5

I'd always been taught to listen to myself before i listen to anyone else. My partner and I have been together for nearly a year and from the early stages we knew it was love at first site. However, I don't know if it makes a difference but usually when we are at home he is all over me and usually tells me he loves me at least twice a day, I actually can't recall the last time he said it to me without me saying it first (apart from when he says it if we are texting each other). Also, we have had a couple of arguments lately, over crappy things that dont mean anything. ALSO, he arcs up at me a little bit but often, for example last night we were laying on his bed late at night on the laptop trying to put songs on his new mp3 player i bought him and the laptop kept playing up and i was tired and getting so cranky coz the computer kept playing up and i ended up getting frustrating and going ARGHH do it another day i wanna go to bed n hes like ""ohhh f*ckin hell" he does that all the time.

2007-12-19 08:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by **Jemma** 2

Okay, this is a bit hard to explain, but I'll try my hardest.
Bare with me, I'm really confused.
So, there's a guy in the picture, we've been flirting with eachother for the past month or so.
I've developed feelings for him, and I've told him straight up, that I like him. He hasn't given me a straight answer saying, I like you too, but we've been texting like crazy, we flirt every chance we have together, and he's spoken to his friends about me.
The problem is, a lot of my friends dislike him, he's a really two-sided person, not two-faced, he's just like, a "bully" to a lot of the people at our school, and let's just say people either hate him, or love him.
He's really sweet to me, and he knows I like him, but I'm not 100% sure if he feels the same, I mean yeh we flirt a lot, but still, he's known I've liked him for awhile now, and he's hardly made any moves.
Last night, we were talking, and he put my name in his msn name. And he's been acting more cute lately, does he like me?

2007-12-19 08:09:10 · 2 answers · asked by kills 1

So I just got out of a relationship and just moved
to nyc, the other day I ran into an ex-boyfriend on
the train (you know one of those ex's you could always
see trying it again) and decided to go out on a date
on Saturday. The date went well and i ended up staying
the night.

So this feels silly for my 25 yr old mind to ponder
but how long should one wait for a guy to call her
back? Ive been out of the dating since so long that, I
dont know anymore.

He texted me the next day and I responded back but
I've yet to hear back from him. Should i be worried?

2007-12-19 08:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by lizbethjean 1

ok so im 20 and just wondering if what a guy does for a living changes the way u feel about em or do u block out certain ppl b/c of their job....im an accountant and im good at my job...would my job matter to u? not that it's a big deal just wondering on the answers to this question

2007-12-19 08:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone around me is getting engaged and talking about full term relationships! I'm in 12th grade and I feel like I'm missing out on so much. The guys I date are almost like friends more than lovers and everyone's been telling me to get serious about a relationship. I have plenty of time and I'm not ready to have a serious relationship yet. My question is, will i ever be ready? Or am i training myself now to always be like this? Will i ever find someone i could truly love?

2007-12-19 08:06:30 · 3 answers · asked by MJ B 4

I've been caught watching porn from my girlfriend a few times now and of course would start to complain about it. Wats so bad about it? Its not like im goin to have sex in reallife w/ these porn actresses.

2007-12-19 08:04:20 · 4 answers · asked by JAMES 1

Yep' I said
I buy you fish and chips
don't I luv
Big argument'
Now what's wrong with that, I ask you

2007-12-19 07:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by denis9705 5

Is this normal for a guy to act this way when he knows you like him??


Okay there is this guy he use to always talk, smile, stare at me alot. it was obvious to everyone that he liked me. He would sometimes just stare at me out of no where and people with catch him doing it. Well...I think this guy knows i like him back. Now he is acting all wierd. LIke he still smiles and look at me alot. He just won't talk to me as much anymore. LIke he will be right behind me or something with all of his other friends and his friends will just look at me. The guy that i like use to always smile and flirt with me alot. Now he just looks at me and smiles and doesnt say anything amymore. Is this unusual?? Or does alot of guys do this when they're shy? I think he might be shy but i really dont know. WHAT ARE SOME OF YOU ADVICE??? Do you think he still likes me but shy?

2007-12-19 07:58:46 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my first time french kissing, he understood that I was inexperienced and didn't know what the hell to do. He told me to just put my tounge in his mouth and play around a little and my mouth got really wet in stuff and it was soooo hot and romantic. I messed up a few times (our teeth clashed together lol) and then one time I was really getting it on and he said I was very good at it. Has anybody ever experienced such a great feeling of first time french kissing? tell me your stories?

I asked this yesterday but only 2 people answered, I want more answers please thanks I'd appreciate it!

2007-12-19 07:58:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay there is this guy he use to always talk, smile, stare at me alot. it was obvious to everyone that he liked me. He would sometimes just stare at me out of no where and people with catch him doing it. Well...I think this guy knows i like him back. Now he is acting all wierd. LIke he still smiles and look at me alot. He just won't talk to me as much anymore. LIke he will be right behind me or something with all of his other friends and his friends will just look at me. The guy that i like use to always smile and flirt with me alot. Now he just looks at me and smiles and doesnt say anything amymore. Is this unusual?? Or does alot of guys do this when they're shy? I think he might be shy but i really dont know. WHAT ARE SOME OF YOU ADVICE??? Do you think he still likes me but shy?

2007-12-19 07:47:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy was in love with me for 4 years. We are from different cultures therefore we hided the feelings insides.

I moved to different states. I found out he was in love with me. I am happy,but I was very busy with my new school, new job, new environment. So I told him--"I was not ready for a relationship". We kept in touch as friends. I never give him my phone number or address, we just e-mail each other. He wrote over 20 poems about how much he miss and want to be with me. I always let him know how I feel. I told him couple times that I love him and miss him. But we never made a plan to be with each other.

He was hurt , but still wait for me. He waited for 2 years. Nothing happens, therefore, he left me.

Am I too selfish? What went wrong here? Please advice. Thank you

2007-12-19 07:42:02 · 37 answers · asked by Hope 4

Should I give my bf oral? We are in our 20s and have been dating for a year. We never had sex b/c I told him I was waiting until marriage; however, he performed oral on me a couple of times. Even though he’s not forcing me to do it to him, deep down I know he wants me too. The reason why I’m hesitating is b/c I told him I would never do that until marriage. I don’t want to go back on my word and he thinks I’m a liar. Also, he has had a couple of sexual partners and I wouldn’t want to do that unless he’s tested. I know this is a lot, but what should I do? Thanks.

2007-12-19 07:41:22 · 26 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4

So, I've been with him for over 2 years now, and he's been wanting to try anal sex. I've been hesitant b/c I've never tried it, heard it's not healthy, don't want any physical harm nor am I too into it. However, my biggest fear would be things coming out from my anal area when he withdraws.... if you know what I mean... (sorry for being gross!!!)

So, is it possible for things to come out? Should I do it anally?
Please help me?

2007-12-19 07:39:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you make out? What turns you on when you do??

2007-12-19 07:37:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

don't worry about hurting my feelings, i want to know the honest truth.

I am 17, 5'5" and 145 pounds. I have medium cut and layered wavy blondish-brown hair and green eyes.

I am built well and proportional, have a 36C bra size and I am white with medium-fair skin.

would you consider me pretty or just average? ugly, etc, please tell me why or why not!

2007-12-19 07:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

should I take it as a good or bad thing that whenever I look at or catch the eye of my crush he doesn't look at me directly, if he does it's only for about a second, or he immediately looks down ?

2007-12-19 07:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by rockyroad 2