Hi guys
I just wanted 2know what white guys think of dating black girls.
I'm a black female and fancy this white guy but I dont think or know if he goes 4 black girls. We get on a well and flirt around
I've seen his ex were white they were slim & sexy, one was blonde and other brunette compare 2me. i'm darkskin like ebony colour, curvey (not fat) just 2give an image flat tummy big bust and a bum, sweet smile and i've been told i have sexy yet mysterious eyes long brown hair
please dont think i'm big headed I just want you to know what i'm on about
I havent had the courage to give him hints that I like him in case I feel a fool
being black I feel maybe us black females could be to much of a hassle, turn off, maybe to much junk in the tunk or not what you would go for.
i know there are interracial couples but i've only dated black men so dont know how to get with other men.
no rude comments and please dont take it in a rude way people thanks in advance
2007-12-19 08:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by worried 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a friendly, nice person with brains not vein at all queit shy actually
I seen him eyein all types of girls white black green etc
2007-12-19 08:45:43 · update #1
Oh, honey, it doesn't matter what kind of consensus you get on this forum. All that matters is what the guy you're interested in is interested in.
black, white, red, brown, yellow...men are men. Approach him like you would any other man. Smile at him, make eye contact, make idle chit chat, flirt...if he seems receptive, then be bold and introduce yourself--if he doesn't know who you are already, invite him out for coffee--tell him you don't normally ask a man out--whether it's true or not, many men find that endearing. Most importantly, just be yourself.
Good Luck and have fun!
2007-12-19 08:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm white and have never been with a black woman.
it's not something that i consider that i have done mindfully.
i think sometimes peoples environments direct them in certain ways throughout thier life. i've never been big on going clubbing or anything like that, i would much rather sit and have a quiet drink in a pub with my mates. i have a few black female friends and that is just not thier scene. they would much rather be out dancing and partying. what i'm trying to explain i guess, is that, just because you've never seen this guy with a black girl, it doesn't mean he's not interested. it may just be that he sticks to his preferd hangouts and friends and just hasn't met many nice black girls. i hope none of this sounds bad becase that is the total opposite of what i am meaning. i myself never differentiated between colour of hair, eyes or skin. i just never seem to have met a nice black girl that was interested in me before. it could be the same for your guy.
2007-12-19 09:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I can only speak from my personal experiance
I Love Black Women always have always will.
I have only dated Black Women all my life I think they are intelligent and Sexy and strong!.
When a Black Woman is down for you she is down for you with every fiber of her being.
When she says she loves you, you don't just hear the words you feel them.
The contrast between our skin as the passion builds.
And them crazy bodies curves, curves and more curves the lips of man those lips.
Yep make mine sweet chocolate any day. For my preferance Black women are the most special, inteligent and beautiful women on earth they are truly queens.
I have loved Black women since I saw the movie Get Christy Love as a young boy to the time I held a African Princess in my arms as a man.
In my book Black Women are in a class by themselves! (Head of the class that is!)
2007-12-19 11:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by ems2000tab 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1) I'm white and dated a black girl. The only difference that I didn't like was she didn't moan much when we were making love.
2) You like him but are too afraid to tell him? He, in the same position, would have MUCH more to lose, you basically have nothing to lose. make a move, a move much bolder than you are comfortable with. Your comfort zone is the enemy.. Make a move before some hot blonde bimbo snatches him up. maybe while you wrote this, one already has...
Good luck.
2007-12-19 08:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am still looking to date a black girl, i think its awesome, never have been with one before. i am so for inter-relationship. Now in this day and age you better check his parents and make sure they are not fools and dont like it, it could get hard on yall cuz some people are dumb like that. But go for it. Good Luck
2007-12-19 08:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Randy W 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Come on I am a white guy who dated a black woman. Just take him to dinner and see how he feels Go out as friends You never know unless you find out GOOD LUCK
2007-12-19 08:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I would date a black girl, especially one like you describe yourself to be. I find black girls a little more sexy than white girls, I cant describe why.
2007-12-19 10:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a realy nice sweet girl,so go for it girl,but remember not to let him use u,but then again you sound like you got heaps of common sense.good luck and all the best for christmas.x
2007-12-19 17:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either fancies you or he doesn't. And a large part of that is down to you as a person, and nothing to do with your skin colour or ethnic background.
2007-12-19 08:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
relationships are personal things, so youd find some people who agree with it and some that dont.
personally i dont think ethnicity matters at all as long as you are happy together.
2007-12-19 08:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋