No, dont think im going to do this because I just wouldnt, but I went out with the girls last night and it was a topic we discussed. I just wondered what everyone else thinks?
2007-12-19 08:47:45 · 23 answers · asked by lillibut 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wouldn't matter how much i liked a guy i went on a date with,as long as he knew i wasn't gonna sleep with him on the first date!
I couldn't just jump in to bed with someone,i hardly know.It would take a good few dates,and for me to feel comfortable with them before i would consider sex!
If he kept pestering me for it,it would tell me that's all he wanted in the first place,and i would tell him to **ck off!
2007-12-19 10:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While I must be honest and say I would be really happy at the time if she did put out on the first date, something inside me would say to me that there wouldn't be a second date.
If there was a second date or even a longer relationship, it would always be in the back of my mind how quickly we had slept together and it would take some understanding to work through it.
2007-12-19 17:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would defiantly be a surprise,
but it would depend on how she treated me after that fist date.
I would respect her as long as she is honest with me about her intentions, If I'm just a booty call for the night or something more serious.
2007-12-19 16:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is a question for men, but I am a woman and I think that times have changed and if you use protection then I do not see why it is wrong, aslong as the bloke is single and so is the female
2007-12-19 16:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by icequeen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I went out on a first date....I wouldn't put a woman in a position that she had to answer that question.
Why do men assume it is a female issue?
2007-12-19 16:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
as a girl i think most (not all) blokes would accept sex on a first date, but there just wouldnt be any second date.
sex on a first date is usually classified as a one night stand.
2007-12-19 16:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by L 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that we are all adults able to make our own decsions and if a girl or women choose to take it to that level on the first date its her right. what's with all the males judging bet that would sleep with her and yet not think they were wrong or cheap funny their happy to call her names but the same does apply to them. no double standards allowed here.
well said robert c
2007-12-19 17:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Redmuppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd respect her for being a straightforward girl who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go straight after it.
Do you have her contact details? Hehehe
2007-12-19 16:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not if I was a guy, I would always wonder how many other guy she puts out for on the first date. It's just slutty.
2007-12-19 16:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Considering all the other sexual things that are going on nowadays i don't see why it matters anymore...
2007-12-19 16:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋