This will take some brains...Lonliness help?

Question

Okay so here's the deal...Im 22/m and never had a girl, im not a virgin thank god, but it still sucks alot that I cannot communicate with anyone of the opposite sex correctly. I mean i'm not bad looking in the face, im 6'6 150lbs, so I feel like the jolly green giant but also like a wet noodle, lol! I can laugh about that but really it was traumatizing growing p, and still is sometimes. Please dont say work out, I get that all the time, I do workout and I eat so much but again and again the same story.

I am actually a little nervous because I just had a panick attack and my heart almost stopped, this is all do to my lonliness. My heart is not good because I feel the need for companionship but can't do nothing about it. I feel like i'm not human and that people dont see me as human but just a giant beanpole who is fun to ask "Oh my god how tall are you?"

I am incredibly smart, I can be very sociable but at the same time I avoid people by pulling out some of my famous lies.

Answer 1

I don't know if you're asking or venting. Either way, get a job in the service industry and meet people and fn relax. If you get all worked up about communicating you'll be too preoccupied to do it effectively. Oh and don't tell people you think you're "incredibly smart" you sound pretentious, especially when you say things like "can't do nothing about it."

Answer 2

Your thinking too much and trying to prove your worth in effect it causes you to be weird and unusual around the opposite sex. Reality is women are cold, cruel and are going to use you. So instead of focusing on them which will drive you crazy. Focus on yourself, your future, your wealth, when they see that driven and focus, some kitty is going to come along for the ride. She may never love you for you but at least you wont be lonely :) A nice car is a good start!

Answer 3

you are assuming no one likes you before they even get to know you. work on your self esteem. take it from a woman, insecurities are not attractive. if you are embarressed of your weight, try weight gain supplements. and stop looking for miss right, or she will never find you. build confidence by casually talking to the girls at the check out registers, or the sales associates at the mall without having any intentions. do these things for a while, and before you know it, you will exude confidence. a little eye contact and a smile never hurts either! good luck!

Answer 4

Well it seems like another case of low self-esteem. What you really want to do is try to help yourself become more confident. And it wouldn't hurt to try to go out and meant some knew people. Try not to come off desperate because that can be very unattractive as well. Just go out have fun. Show off some of your good qualities, and be yourself.

Answer 5

Tall guys are a major turn on for a gazillion girls... Dont let ur strenght be felt like a weakness... Its hot be tall, and 6'6 aint tooooooooo tall.... dont let it become the reason for ur insecurity...

Answer 6

girls love tall guys.. i don't really see the problem?? well I'm in sort of in a similar position I'm 22/f and haven't really dated.. sometimes I feel like a loser about it, I'm not considered ugly or anything, I'm just not into partying, drugs or anything like that..once you understand people and body language you won't be so panicy I suggest reading up on it..like psych and stuff like that..

Answer 7

It sounds to me like you need a bit of experience in mixing with people ... particularly with girls.

Answer 8

u sound like a sweet guy i would date u