well there is this girl i have known since about june...we just recently started talking and hanging out in october....we have gone out about 4 times...we talk about 2times a week on the phone...i really like her and told her i liked her...she said she liked me too...BUT...lately i feel she has been ignoring me...we still talk adn see each other..i tried to give her a kiss and she told me she didnt want to cus she didnt want me to think bad of her cus we arent together...is that a clue that she wants to be with me or wats wrong...cus she has told me she likes me and she doesnt see me as a friend but when i bring up her adn I as a couple she acts different??...she is 18 and im 21...and we have alot in common and also alor of diferences....any advice?
2007-12-19 15:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by emar2614 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she likes me, but idk maybe its the age diference idk...
2007-12-19 16:02:54 · update #1
just take your time, don't rush things she's probably not ignoring you, she's just probably trying 2 see what you do. just take your time and be sweet to her.
2007-12-19 15:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kinggp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are also more concerned about their security- social, mental, physical and so some extant economical too. Where do you stand in the society counts. Close relationships doesn't warrant talking or meeting. You should try to know her inner feelings, her attitude about her partner, etc. She may be attracted towards another guy also.
2007-12-20 00:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pankaj Kumar M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion bud, do not waste your time over this stuff man. If you really want to know though, the best route to take is to actually ask her what she feels and tell her to be honest. It is the only way unless you want to spend more of your time wondering and hoping for the best.
Good luck.
2007-12-19 23:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are hard to figure out. We are emotional creatures. Just keep hanging out and having fun together. Don't push her to go further or commit. She will come around if you does want to take it further. There is nothing worse that someone is wanting more and you don't. It is major turn off and it will push her away.
2007-12-19 23:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Spurs_56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not 21, but I'd actually wait a bit and well... why not take her on a date to some...(girls love it when you spend money on them) expensive place to dine and make the relationship stronger?
Hope this helps!
2007-12-19 23:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Erik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she wants you to ask her out she probably old fashion type a girl and doesn't feel like kissing every guy that comes along unless they are serious
2007-12-19 23:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by saveitok 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is simply being normal................she would've rejected u if she didn't like u..............n wouldn't have said that she didn't ''wanna let u think bad 'bout her'' if she wabted to keep distance from u>>>>>So chill ; give 'em some time n let things happen the way she loves.....................n I m tellin coz I m my school girl's 'Apple of eyes' as said by 'em n do've knowledge 'bout such stuff.............. Good luck big-boy ;)
2007-12-20 00:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by BLASTOISE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that she just likes the attention you give her but doesnt want to be locked down....OR....(((NOT being rude here))) but maybe she really likes you but physically she isnt attracted to you? Just a thought....good luck!
2007-12-19 23:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by queeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk, i say you gotta be more honest w/ her. once u two are together n alone bring it up, even if she tries to avoid the issue. tell her that u wanna b w/ her n just date her "exclusively", and if she says no well u're the only one who knows what to do-> keep talking to her or break it off. good luck!
2007-12-19 23:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just keep testing the waters. it could be the age difference thats making her act that way.
2007-12-19 23:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ryu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋