Singles & Dating - 6 November 2007

My boyfriend told me this, and I'm not really sure why. this was by the time she was 22 or something. I'm not sure what to make of it. I mean, me and all the girls I know haven't slept with even close to that many people, so it came as a shock to me. I mean, she must be quite, er, flirtatious to have done that, or at least a bit easy. Does that mean that's the sort of girl he usually goes for? I feel worried that his ex was this big aggresive experienced sexual predator, and that I'm totally boring and inexperienced in comparison. Either that, or he'd prefer someone a bit more...erm...slutty or something? He said she was tested for stds and she was clean, so I have to trust him on that. he also said that he had only slept with 5 people. Should I be worried that I'm not experienced enough for him?

2007-11-06 05:54:47 · 46 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

why , when i like a guy, and he starts to show alot interest in me, i push him away and step back and get bored?????

how can i change this?

2007-11-06 05:53:05 · 1 answers · asked by yasinena 3

Why would someone, a girl in my case, text message me instead of calling me when she says she will call me when we are meeting? I call her all the time but she never calls me unless its because shes calling me back.

2007-11-06 05:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, at first he called me and things seemed to be going good. Then all of a sudden he stopped calling me. Then when I logged into msn, he was all like "why didn't you call me?" when he said to me previously that he was going to call me, which is why I didn't call him because I was waiting for his call. Then when he calls me, he actually asks me "what am I thinking about?". lol. Then now, he's always asking me to call him, instead of him just picking up the phone and calling me. He also likes shoes and likes chick flicks.

Is there something wrong with this guy, or is my brain just over exaggerating everything? I'm possibly in the wrong, because his behaviour is kinda cute...but he is such a girl! lol

2007-11-06 05:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by somegirl 3

2007-11-06 05:46:06 · 14 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2

2007-11-06 05:40:12 · 22 answers · asked by Rita 6

ok so i havent really been honest with anyone about this and i would like an unbiased opinion. me and my bf have been together for over 2 and 1/2 years. in thebeginning, we had some trust problems as he had been hurt by previous girls and i was a bit of a party girl. everything cooled down and we were really enjoying eachother. then this summer, he became very distant. he was working on different projects and didnt really have time to be the bf he was to me previously. i felt alone and as i didnt k now how to handle the change in him. he wasnt communicating with me and i didnt know what he was doing most of the time. he assured me that he was being faithful to me and that i shouldnt worry because he was dedicated to us. time went on and things got worse. i ended up cheating on him. i had a one night stand with a guy i worked with. i really regretted it and i had a hard time coming out to him and telling him what i had done but i finally told him everything about what i did and why.

2007-11-06 05:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3

me and my boyfriend been fightin all the time cause it all me i keep on bring up is past relationship im scared that im going to loose him they still talk as friends and am i being inceure are what please help me.how can i make our relationship happy , please help

2007-11-06 05:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by tammy m 1

2007-11-06 05:22:00 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4

I had a boyfriend &a male best friend. Male best friend had gf who I wasn't even friends with. My male best friend kept telling me he loved me&that we were soul mates. I always told him not to say it to me, as it was inappropriate. I broke up with my bf, my best friend's gf dumped him &2 months later me &my best friend slept together. My best friend told me he wanted to marry me etc. Then his ex gf found out, and went mental! My best friend told a lot of lies and basically ended up getting back with his ex, & she still doesn't know the whole truth. Thing is, his gf blamed ME! She said I manipulated him into sleeping with me, and into lying, and called me names even though SHE had broken up with HIM&I had always told him to shut up when he was inappropriate to me. PLUS my ex is still friends with my best friend (also his friend) but won't talk to me, even though I never cheated,&this other guy lied to him&he knows it! I didn't lie or cheat&get blamed.He did, but I end up losing out.Why?

2007-11-06 05:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

OK i KNOW THAT iM NO PORN STAR BUT i NEED A DUDE TO GiVE ME MORE i'VE BEEN WiTH THESE GUYS WHO JUST LACK STAMiNA. THEY GO FOR LiKE 10 MiNUTES OR [LESS] YES LESS AND ACT LiKE THEY'VE BEEN iN THE GYM FOR HOURS. AT FiRST i THOUGHT iT WAS COiNCiDENCE BUT iTS HAPPENED WiTH DiFFERENT DUDES. iTS STARTiNG TO MAKE ME FEEL LiKE SEX iS OVERRATED. i MEAN i SHOULDNT FEEL LiKE i'VE WASTED MY TiME AFTER EVERY ENCOUNTER ! WHAT DO i DO YAHOO ? LOL...

2007-11-06 05:18:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy that i used to date and also lived with for almost 2 years drowned nov-1-2007 in Miami where i lefted him at ...I talked to him halloween night and he sounded happy and wanted to see me soon but then the next day he died... He was only 22 and im 23 and im in shock ...I lefted him almost 3 weeks ago and ill never forget the look on his face ... I feel as if ill never be the same again ... One min im fine the next min im hysterical ... I loved him so much and im still very much in love with him... What can i do to mend the pain ...? It doesnt seem real when i know it is ... Im having to go thru all his stuff to give to his mom and me ... This has been the hardest yet in my life... Please help me what can i do ??????????????

2007-11-06 05:07:40 · 48 answers · asked by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1

Didn't God call us to modesty and holiness not nakedness?...I saw one woman the other day who showed everything but her nipples....

2007-11-06 05:04:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-06 05:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so in my neighbor hood there are a bunch of teens my age and we all hang with each other and such but we are all girls and there is this one boy and he doesn't hang with us anymore. i mean he has totally changed! one time when we were hanging out we decided to go see if he wanted to hang but his mom answered and she said he was vacuming and then he came to the door and said he just started a movie. and now he used this girl for money and told her she was ugly. that is sooo weird of him. he use to be nice and now he is a b**ch and trys to be gangster. maybe you hve an answer to why he is acting sooo weird. he has a lot of friends who are boy but why won't he hang out with us anymore???

2007-11-06 05:03:24 · 27 answers · asked by HUGS NOT DRUGS!!! 2

i have been flirting and texting this guy he has been flirting back he sent me three kisses last night in a text anyway today i got a text asking me to call him-- yet i was away from my phone then half an hour later another text saying "ignore the last text, lads messing around, sorry". I just cant make heador tail of him i was away from my phone when i got the first text so i never phoned him and then i go the second saying ignore the first- do you think it was lads messing around or do you think he actually asked me to call him.but becasue he did not hear from me in the half hour he tried to cover it up? He is 28 bit bizarre what do you think? 10 points for decent logical answer?

2007-11-06 05:01:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

...Who lets say is drinving a 90's compact vehicle, but has his own 2bedroom apt/condo, or a guy who is driving a 2008 expensive vehicle, but lives @ home with Parents?

2007-11-06 04:58:27 · 22 answers · asked by KingHenry ll 2

Why do girls look for Bad Boys who don't give a damn? I mean, I'm a Good Guy who don't give a damn. Does that count? What does a bad boy have that no other guy appears to have?

2007-11-06 04:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by Jerrius T 2

i got answers that were "more" and "less" -
the answers seemed to have more "more"s than "less"es in general -

but there weren't many explanations why or what was hoped to be achieved -

it seemed the "less" answerers just wanted the "less experienced" now, later in life, just to settle down with;
but previously in life you wanted the "more experienced" for sowing the wild oats so to speak - but now the wild times are over you want the more subdued type

would this be a fair estimate?

2007-11-06 04:54:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been dating almost two years, throughout this time he has continued to talk to his ex wife through texting. I have expressed MANY times that I do not like it, yet he makes out like it is nothing, and continues. I had checked his phone records and confirmed many times that he was indeed still talking to her, and he gets mad for that, so I said I wouldnt do it anymore, and he said they wouldnt talk anymore, well, I got the notion that they were still talking, so I went and checked again, and I was right...am I wrong for checking up on him even when i said I wouldnt? What should I do?>

2007-11-06 04:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet_Bama 2

Ladies, I need an honest answer here, please...

What present / gift do you really want on your first date?

Thank you!

2007-11-06 04:44:59 · 9 answers · asked by 360° 4

dump your best girlfriend because your boyfriend is best friends with her ex, and he told you you had to choose between him and her?

2007-11-06 04:43:14 · 9 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

I'm always hearing how great it is and blablabla...
but do people ever get bored of it??

2007-11-06 04:35:23 · 43 answers · asked by bumblebees666 1

I am a single, staright, 28 year old male and I have not yet experienced having a girlfriend or my first kiss. There is nothing wrong with me or my life, I just have not had the time with work and school to meet someone. Anyone else like me??

2007-11-06 04:33:53 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

the relationship i am in has 3 people. 2 girls, one guy.

2007-11-06 04:32:21 · 1 answers · asked by Laura T 1

Most people have something that turns them on that they are too embarressed to say to their spouse. Or they know their spouse would never go for it and would probably be offended, maybe even leave. Have you told your spouse the filthiest thing you want to do in bed? And since we are talking anonyomously here, if don't mind sharing it, please do.

2007-11-06 04:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so lyke we were at a party and me and my friends were drunk & my friend started getting with this guy but she has a BOYFRIEND so she cheated on her boyfriend with this guy but anyways the next day he called me (I know him from school) and told me that he really wanted to get with ME & I think he's not lying because he was looking at me the whole time and the reason me and him didnt hook up is because I was getting with some other guy so do you think I should tell my friend I'm talking to this guy or is it fuckd up and I should forget about him? keeeep in mind my friend has a boyfriend!! thankkkkkkks! :)

2007-11-06 04:29:12 · 26 answers · asked by RoXsTaRuh 1

Help me out with some examples of things that a "confident" guy does.

Also, ladies, what's something you notice that immediately makes you think a guy lacks confidence?

~Thanks

2007-11-06 04:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by WiggumRalph 1

okay i just turned 18 on november 5th which was yesterday. i've been like older men since i was 12. i don't know why i just get this urge feeling when i see a good looking guy and he's 22 or 24. i mean i like 18 year olds but why am i so attracted to older men.

2007-11-06 04:27:42 · 7 answers · asked by DatThickQueenFrmBX 2

Ok, so...My girlfriend Heather dumped me for a guy, so now I have this crush on this guy in my new school. He's so totally awesome and he pokes me all the time. He makes me laugh alot, but he's not her. I miss my girl. She put my life in to perspective for me when everything was going down hill. I honestly don't know what to do. I know she still cares but she's trying to forget....I'd do absolutely anything for her, die, kill, steal, absolutely anything. I just need to know what exactly she needs so I can give it to her. Hell, on the phone last tuesday, I told her if she wanted me to come home to ask me to and I'd walk all the way home. Thats 400 miles from her, but I'd do it, even if it was snowong out like it is now. I'd freeze to death trying to get to her. I didn't even get the chance to leave when she told me that she no longer wanted to be with me, because her mom said no. I always thought that you should follow your heart no matter what. Am I wrong to think this?

2007-11-06 04:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Ripsi W 2